Master needs help on cbt and on bdsm things..
I need some advices on bdsm things... :help: :help:
I am a young male master and I am interesting on knowing how to treat a maleslave.
I would like to know...how i can understand that he is ready to cum..in order not to let him! :)
I also want to know if there are some creams that i can have in order to keep him aroused.. [I need a creme that it is easy to buy..and something like counterpain(that I have heard)]. Please ,let me know the cremes and how to use them.
I also want to know...how I can understand then he is really to the edge of pain on his balls...
So sorry for my english level. I am waiting your opinion.
Thanks in advance.
CBT They always want more...
Ok, so inquiring minds want to know more. Since its been a while since I had my hands on a willing set of balls to play with I asked the gods at Google the question to see what others had to say. And behold some good answers.
BDSM Cafe has a "how to" links page that contains CBT.
Jack Rinella has two articles Ball Playing and Genitorture . Dont forget to search the library here for stories with CBT. This should get you started on your reading. ;)
Now ProjectEuropa there is something for you here too if we change CBT to CBP, cock and ball "play". No it doesn't have to hurt. Lets take the example of cock or ball rings. These are made more for fun. they come in many forms but are usually a leather band or steel ring. They don't fit tight but snug and can be found almost anywhere you find gay boys, BDSM or not.
The whole idea is to stimulate the skin on an area of the body that doesn't get much. And also to cause stimulation by the change in the way you hang. The idea being that it feels good, and makes you think about your cock and whom you want to do with it. :D They can be used in a variety of ways. Worn under cloths to a date or the bar they can be a persistant reminder of whats on your mind. They can sometimes cause some swelling but isnt that the goal in the end.
Now when used in conjunction with sex they can have other uses. Typically they applied before erection to a comfortable tightness. As things progress and swelling increases a cock ring will act to prevent the outflow of blood and prevent the swellng from going away. Some of the side affects are that you can get rock hard and stay that way for quite a while. Also there is no need to wate for your cock to get back up for additional rounds. :D Another benifit, due to the fact that the skin is stretched tightly, is increased sensation. And lets face it don't we want more of that during sex. ;) Cock rings are perscribed for men with erectile and sensation problems, but the one the doc perscribes isnt pretty and cost $100 or so. Ball rings have a slightly different effect in that they will help in increasing the time before ejaculation. So cool feels good, more sensitivity and longer lasting. Gals are you paying attention here. :eek: Oh and for the gals there is an added benifit with a cock ring in that the balls are held away form the body. That means that during sex they are goning to come into contact with your sensitave parts more too. And if you are in the doggy position they might just hit the clit. :)
Now to more of what I think egwmilaw is looking for, CBT. For cock rings to produce pain they need to be tighter, wider or heavier or some combination. Particulary with ball rings or stretchers the idea is to stretch the scrotum and force the balls down to the bottom. And if you add weight not only do you get increased pressure and increased pain.
Now the scrotum is a strange thing, mostly just a bunch of flesh holding two testies and the nerves and veins. Lots of space not much content. And its much stronger durable than one might think. The pain is generaly caused by putting pressure in the balls themselves. So through the use of very tight and whide ball stretchers you can apply conciderable weight to the scrotum and minimal weight to the balls. This can cause some interisting sensations and the mental aspects, such as the fear of castration, can lead to much fun.
I was at a gay leather contest a while back and and watched the "Ball Weight Lifting Contest". The judges stopped the contest and awarded the winners trophy to three guys who made it to the 80 pound mark. :eek: So yes they are quite resilant and strong.
Also the use of these can be the setup for percussive play on the penis. Just flicking with your finger or something stronger like taps from a crop can produce quite intense reactions.
As for the vacume devices, they are designed to draw blood into the penis and depending on the ammount of the vacume applyed can produce anything from plesently full to very painfully over full. The main BDSM use I have seen for them in in the Femdom relm where the Domme wants to bring on an erection without any other stimulation. Whether its for sex or, more likely, be able to apply some pain giving. Besides the odvious pain and control issues this creates a very unusual sensation, in that you have a raging erection and absolutly no stimulation. If applied with enough force it can create the fear of permenate removal. :D If you add the electrical stimulation of the prostrate you can have one of the most bizar experiences.
A couple of notes on safty before I go. First the penis is basically made up of compartments to store blood. The easiest way to get in trouble is to damage these. Be mindfull of binding the penis before erection in such a way that it cant expand at all or can only expand to little. The pressure exerted by the heart to fill it is great and can excede the ability of the storage areas to resist it. Once damaged there is no repair. For the scrotum remember the balls are the tender part and if you are going to pierce it watchout for the blood vessels and nerves, that leaves a lot of room to play.
Hope that gets you having fun with the boy parts. If you have an appatite for more, just ask. :)
