18 Sub-Switch in Oxford for a friend and play partner.

Hello, first off I'd like to say thanks for reading this post. There are so many young-sub-seeks-domme threads out there, so I'm glad you clicked on this one!

I'm looking for someone to discuss, explore and experience BDSM with - whether this leads to a serious BDSM lifestyle relationship or not, I'm open to either (if we "click" of course!)

I tend to be submissive, however I do get the odd dominant streak here and there, hence I've labelled myself as Sub-Switch.

Well, if you're this far through, then you probably want to know more about me:

- I'm eighteen years old, and I'm an undergrad student in Oxford, living just south of the city center.
- I've been interested in BDSM for a good few years, but only really active in socialising both online and at munches in the last 6 months or so.
- While I do have likes, dislikes, obsessions and limits, I really need to explore some play before I can rule certain things in and out.
- I tend to be quite shy, but once I relax in somewhere, I do come alive and quite adventurous,

My submissive BDSM likes and dislikes (I think!)

Likes:
- Bondage
- Genital Bondage is even better :P
- Tease, Denial and Orgasm Control (especially the ruined ones!)
- Pain - impact play, CBT, clothespins and nipple clamps
- Breath play (of course, this is edgy for most and as I'm new to the whole thing it's probably something best off left until a later date)
- Hot wax

Not sure about:
- Anal play (I think I like it, but I still need to get used to the new sensations!)
- Facesitting (The idea of it excites me, but then I remember I don't like ass-mouth/nose things)
- Ballbusting (I think I could really get into this but while I start out, it's something that seems quite extreme for me, something I'll have to work up to)
- Humiliation (I just don't think I'm that type of submissive. I don't mind it, but I don't particularly like it either. I'm indifferent to it, so it's probably pointless)
- Cum eating (Not something I have tried much, but when I did I didn't enjoy it. But maybe I just need the right incentive!)
- Role play (I've simply never tried it!)

Don't Like:
- Needles & Blood (I have a big needle phobia and just the sight of one is sure to bring out the safeword straight away)
- Ass-to-mouth/nose (I don't like the idea of "eating out an asshole" as it's so elegantly referred to by many. Nor sniffing one either)
- Anything with my hands (my hands are very precious to me, so anything with clamps over knuckles, rope over hands etc. is a no at the moment. Wrists are fine though!)
- Scat, obviously.
- Water play. No not pee play, but things like dunking underwater and waterboarding. They're edgy things anyway though so I guess I'm not turning many heads with that one.
- Public play. At least for now. BDSM is quite a private thing for me, and it's only now I've moved out from home and parents that I'm doing any more than just going to the occasional munch. Well, trying to at least!


Well that's all I can think of for the time being.

Oh no I missed one quite important thing - I'm straight and I'd preferably like to connect with someone under 30. And in regards to my likes and dislikes, I'm always flexible - no two people are the same, no doubt you'll have different tastes to me even if they're similar, so there's always leeway to try new things!


Well that really is all I can think of for now. I promise.

Thanks so much for reading, if I'm not what you're looking for then that's okay, I wish you the best of luck in your searches.

But if I AM (wink wink!) then please feel free to contact me any way you like - you can reply in this thread, PM me here, find me on Fetlife (my name's the same), find me on CollarMe (again, my name's the same). Actually on second thoughts it's best not to go through collarme - I've always had problems with it crashing and logging in and things.

But everything else, whatever you like!

Well, thank you for taking the time to read this.

Not really sure how to sign off. I guess that'll have to do.

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