Kink/Fetish check list....

It has been my experience that knowledge of your partner and communication are the two biggest parts of any relationship, but even more so when it come to BDSM. To help with this i have used a check list of fetishes that i made from combining other lists and adding to it when new things have come up.

By having my sub fill this out it can give me a good idea of what she wants, has done, won't do, and where her limits are. This is nice especially for beginners that may not have thought about some fetishes or may not even know that they can be a fetish.

I was wondering if anyone else uses such a list?

yes i would like to use such a list.

can attachments be in pm ?
havenot tried that yet.

well, i have a pretty complete on, but i would love to see yours Delia. See if you have anything thats not one mine.

Master had me fill one out at the beginning of our relationship - it was a great way for him to see what I would and just plain wouldnt do.
After a while he also filled it in too so we could see if we were compatable, luckily yes we very much are - also it gave me a bit of an insight into what games and fun I should expect in the future based upon what he also wants to try.
The downside was I ticked the wrong box on one thing and even although I told him later when it came up in discussion he wont let it lie and says he has evidence that I am up for that particular kink - which I'm not, but the more he goes on about it............

Ok here is my Fetish Check list.

Whne I first started getting into BDSM I met a guy on another site who was really nice, gave me alot of advice for things to do to help my Master and me get our feet wet and he sent me a couple BDSM check lists which were imensly helpful in sorting initial feelings out. I'll see if I still have them.