What have you done.....?

After a delicious time with slave today we got to chatting as we cooled down for a bit and we talked about how we bring out the best in each other.

I mentioned that when we play I often find myself contemplating, and doing, Things I never thought I would. This I explained was because I naturally felt so comfortable with her that all my inner desires can be released and it only seemed like an extension of our love.

So....

Have you ever found yourself doing something during sexual play that you never thought you would and if so what was the boundary you leapt over before you realised it?

As I'm just starting and exploring right now, a lot of what we do contains a "wait, I just did that?" moment for me. It's kind of energizing, really, to realize that the moment has pushed me to do something I'd not be capable of if I had stopped to think about it. I look forward to those moments.

Lots of things!! I have had a lot of firsts lately. Some of them were deliberate stretching of limits, and others were just pleasant side effects.

In fact, I recently re-read a checklist I completed only a few months ago, and was surprised by how much it already has changed. A number of things have already moved from the "maybe someday" to the "yup, and I love it" column.

Being free to explore fully is one of the best feelings in the world. I am grateful to be in a relationship that encourages me to do so.

As I'm relatively new to the lifestyle, I'm surprised to the degree I've learned to let go/surrender and enjoying things I was ambivalent about. Things I saw as a punishment turning into something pleasurable and desiring more.

It is always great to hear from others that the experiences my slave and I have are mirrored by those of others. I guess when you first explore this side of life you can often think you are somehow a bit odd or disturbed but being on this site has given me the confidence to stand up proud and say:

'I love being a sadist'

Thank you.

master 327-834-200 http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/at...9&d=1166769451 May you enjoy a wonderful Christmas!

The first time my sub and I had anal was a 'spur of the moment kind of thing'...

This was before there was any Ds aspect to our relationship, and I had fantised about anal before (never having done it though). Then one night during sex she mentioned it, completely out of the blue. Obviously we couldn't jump straight in (pun not intended lol), so I used a finger first, and this turned her on incredibly, and so we went all the way...

Yours

MasterandSub

P.S. Hope this isn't too graphic, am kinda new and not entirely sure of the levels of detail allowed lol.

Masterandsub...... hehe you are more than welcome to be as graphic as you wish... in fact the more graphic the better!!!!

more graphic the better :)

in the heat of passion all kinds of things happen , if i had time to sit and think about them i prob wouldnt do them