Finding the right one

Is very difficult ---do not get me wrong ----I can find willing subs all around me ----but finding that one special one seems to elude me ---and I know it is the same with subs trying to find a Dom

Most of the ones I find just want to play games ----which I have nothing against ---and have just as much fun as they do ---but I am looking for the right one ----See I understand that life is not all bdsm games ----there is a serious side ---a romantic side ---a time to be tender and gentle---and cuddle ---and there is time for fun and games ----

Now this is not a personal ad ----just letting subs know it is not just them that find it hard to find the right one----the life partner ---those that do are lucky ----

Alas I guess I will keep playing games until the right one comes along ---

heres hoping we all find the one we are looking for

Oh, I hear you Rabbit.

I know everything that I want in a partner. Up until very recently, I was convinced I could never find it all in one person. Or that if I did, that I didn't deserve it.

But now I know better. On both counts.

What has comforted me is the fact that "He" has been out there, somewhere, searching for me. I just haven't been ready to be found.

Until now.

-lily

There are a thousand and one...make that one thousand and two...thoughts running through my mind about "finding the right O/one". The only musing I will let escape is that I hope when you find your one, it is absolutely everything you dreamed it would be and only that.

Until then, all that playtime can be good for a giggle...or a shiver or maybe even a happy sigh...or whatever. :)

Happy searching and best of fate (if you subscribe to such a thing) -
tessa

Rabbit, I have perhaps had the privilage of getting to know you better than many people on this site. From our exchanges I can only say when you do find your 'right one' she will be a very fortunate and very happy lady.

In the meantime, I am taking care to follow your instruction to me at the end of my first training session "... and try not to ban uncle he is a good guy ---lol".

hugs
cariad

*twiddles moustache*

*Booming laugh* HA HA! They fell for my cunning plan!

*searches for keys to the drinks locker*

On a serious note, Rabbit. You have deeply impressed cariad and that is not easy! There is undoubtedly the one out there for you-bear in mind that she will be over-awed by your capabilities and stature to start with...so to any potential "ones" I say-get to know the real man behind the whiskers and ears, you will be pleasantly rewarded by what you find...

*manly-type hug*

Ed.

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Originally Posted by Uncle_Ed<c>

*twiddles moustache*

*Booming laugh* HA HA! They fell for my cunning plan!

*searches for keys to the drinks locker*

On a serious note, Rabbit. You have deeply impressed cariad and that is not easy! There is undoubtedly the one out there for you-bear in mind that she will be over-awed by your capabilities and stature to start with...so to any potential "ones" I say-get to know the real man behind the whiskers and ears, you will be pleasantly rewarded by what you find...

*manly-type hug*

Ed.

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Thanks uncle ---I may share my stash of JD with you ---lol ---and cariad is a special lady ---you are lucky she is in the UK ---and not close to me ---I do have cute whiskers ----lol

Rabbit

Your post made me want to give you the biggest hug possible. From the few conversations we have had I can only echo what cariad has already said - when you find your 'right one' she will indeed be a lucky lady.

~hugs and more hugs~

minxy xx

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See I understand that life is not all bdsm games ----there is a serious side ---a romantic side ---a time to be tender and gentle---and cuddle ---and there is time for fun and games ----

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maintaining that serious, romantic, tender & gentle side on-line IS hard! trying to get those feelings across via the keyboard (or even a mike or phone) .... the other aspect of an on-line D/s relationship i sometimes find difficult is keeping a submissive mind-set as i go about my day-to-day real life... so maybe the on-line relationship is getting me ready for a real-life relationship?

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heres hoping we all find the one we are looking

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or that they find us....

I don't know you but I hope that the one comes along I'm sure it will be as much a surprise to you as to them.

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Thanks uncle ---I may share my stash of JD with you ---lol ---and cariad is a special lady ---you are lucky she is in the UK ---and not close to me ---I do have cute whiskers ----lol

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*Flutters eyelids and runs to Uncle's side.*

Thank you Rabbit!

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*Flutters eyelids and runs to Uncle's side.*

Thank you Rabbit!

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*holds you close*

True... none-the-less...

...revel in the chase my friend.

I can relate to the feeling. I've always wanted the "more" of relationships. Finding the right one isn't easy. Hell, it can be exhausting and furstrating sometimes. But surely it's worth the effort to keep trying. At least that's what I convince myself of anyway! Somewhere, she's out there. And when I find her, it's going to be mind blowing.

lily:
"Up until very recently, I was convinced I could never find it all in one person. Or that if I did, that I didn't deserve it.

But now I know better. On both counts."

Well hon knowing you as I do, I could have told you that. Especially the second point. ;)

Oh she's out there, waiting to be found I'll bet and probably feeling the same way.

But once you two find each other, it'll be well worth waiting for.

I know Im hoping, and Im impatient and Im young. Its frustrating to find people only interested in sexual-only domination.. and hey.. its fine for some people but its certainly not my cup of tea. There's so much more power I want to give, lose, but finding someone that's compatible with me as well as someone that will actually take all that power Im willing to give and more- is (needless to say) very difficult.. But I know that when I finally find my own Sir all the time spent searching will be worth it in the end.

~Daes