Scent of a Woman, (or man)
I want to know how many of you LOVE the smell of an aroused partner. Men have a distinct smell as well when they are aroused, the first time the underwear comes off is so hot because instantly even if I couldn't see it, I can smell it. So hot
Do you get turned on by your own smell of arousal? The first time I really smelt my self when I was very turned on was a surprise for me and then a turn on. The first time someone smelt my underwear after I took it off was wicked. At first I was all NOOO don't do that, followed by OMG that so damn hot, he REALLY LIKES the way I smell.
If you want your partner to know how much you want them part of it is telling them over and over that they smell wonderful to you. I had someone very blatently smell me all over like some animal during sex and that was so hot, primitive, basic, we are all animals after all. I could never ever sleep with someone I did not like the natural scent of no matter what.
We are taught that to have any natural body scent at all, that its wrong and dirty and yet its such an important part of the sensual experience. Over the years learning that smell as one of our five senses gives so much to the erotic experience has been a big part of fully embracing sexuality. Some times I wonder if, when I am very horny and out in public if people can somehow smell it coming off me and the idea of that also makes me hot. I don't think it is something that people ever really admit is so integral to arousal and yet it is so out there. After all all animals in heat give off odors to attract a mate and we are no different. Arousal smells different as does fear, stress, sweat after a hard work out, illness and so on.
I love the smell of a mans chest too, nothing but his own scent, I don't know why. Its so oddly comforting and so him. It is not always about sex. The smell of your child, mother or any other close person can be an incredibly strong bonding thing. I can at times still close my eyes and remember how my babies smelt, the smell of my milk when i fed them. Scent is an extraordinary thing for memory recall.
Smell adds one more layer to the whole of experiencing, knowing and being intimate with someone. After all you don't just know what a stranger smells like, but if your partner walked into a dark room with you and stood near , just the smell of them lets you know they are there and that's pretty cool. At times just thinking about certain smells is enough to make me close my eyes for a second and hum to myself for a second because of strong associations a with a moment.
Anyone else think the same or am I rather strange about how much I enjoy that as a whole part of being with someone? I can not be the only one who loves that part of the sensual world too.
