Porn, Erotica, Romance?

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

Giggle, Thank you Uncle Walt.

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Dwarf porn.

I don't think that would fit in the new genre. I think Elf would be much more interesting, or maybe... Oh yes Vampire porn that's much more tasty.

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

I don't think that would fit in the new genre. I think Elf would be much more interesting, or maybe... Oh yes Vampire porn that's much more tasty.

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Vampire porn sucks.

But doesn't all porn suck in one way or the other? My preference is Nipple sucking, or maybe cock sucking?

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

But doesn't all porn suck in one way or the other? My preference is Nipple sucking, or maybe cock sucking?

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Don't get wise, Blue eyes!

You know I have always wondered why they call it a blow job? Shouldn't it be a suck job?
And we could be wrong about Uncle Walt- he left one single women alone with 7 men- do you really think nothing happened?

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Originally Posted by jessminty

You know I have always wondered why they call it a blow job? Shouldn't it be a suck job?
And we could be wrong about Uncle Walt- he left one single women alone with 7 men- do you really think nothing happened?

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You suck til we blow. That's the deal.

Giggle, H S Dean your sounding a bit Domish. I thought you were on sabatical?

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You suck til we blow. That's the deal.

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Very creative.

I've always wondered about those dwarfs jessminty. Maybe we need to do some research and write a story. Hummmm?

hmm, not a bad idea....
Think we could get H Dean to be a dwarf?

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Originally Posted by jessminty

hmm, not a bad idea....
Think we could get H Dean to be a dwarf?

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UM, I am 6'4" and look ridiculous in one of those dwarf woodsman outfits. I stretch 'em all out, too.

Oh yes LOL yes, I can see it now. Yes H S Dean in a Dwarf outfit. JessMinty we have to plan this out for sure. I bet he has cute knees.
Giggle till I fall off my chair.

The Dwarf walked into the bar...

That is the first time I laughed out loud in a long time on my computer. When you know, if a guy has great legs, show them off. He can be the not so dwarfy dwarf. The 8th one. I think this has real potential. Emial me and we will craft something just for him :-)

Giggle, hum so we're plotting now, hidden off in cyberspace. I like that, and the Not so Dwarfy dwarf.

SBBE- what happen to our plots? I have big plans for our little dwarf!

Giggle he said he was too busy. Can you believe it?!!!!

He must not have read our work- too busy indeed!

You guys are complaining too much. Don't make me come over there and smack ya'all!

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

Ok this is my first attempt at a thread. I hope it's in the correct place. :)

Ok I just read Teacher Owned, so many people listed it as Favorites in http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...7422#post67422
the “What’s your favorite” thread.
I enjoyed it a lot but it didn’t completely satisfy. (This is not a criticism, just a point I’m wondering about.)
What I’m wondering is the difference between Porn and Erotica? I like more story not just sex. Does that mean what I enjoy is Erotica?
Is what I write more vanilla http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/a...?authorid=1583

Maybe I’m off on the definitions even.
I’ve read 2nn Wow, I felt like I’d been sledge hammered but got incredibly hot.
Wedding Night by Zebulon
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/s...p?storyid=4001
Has to be my favorite at the moment.
I enjoy the back story as much as the sex if it’s well written. I can deal with almost anything but Snuff as long as it has a little romance. Could that be the real thing I need in a story to be sated is romance? Hummmm. Maybe romance is even not exactly right but at least the worship of one for another.
I’ve learned not to expect happy endings but must admit I much prefer them. Even if the happy ending is the victim chained to her/his master/mistress’s bed in complete joyful surrender.
Any comments?:rose:

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I have to agree. I don't always like the whole content of a story but if there is some romance in it I almost enjoy it on some level. Maybe it is a female point of view on the stories.

I wonder if men feel the same way about the content of the stories or if they prefer the stories to just get right to the action.

From the comments I get on my stories I think the men just want to get down to it.
I like heavy romance my self, but I am female.

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Originally Posted by Widget

I have to agree. I don't always like the whole content of a story but if there is some romance in it I almost enjoy it on some level. Maybe it is a female point of view on the stories.

I wonder if men feel the same way about the content of the stories or if they prefer the stories to just get right to the action.

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So far, I am a man. At least, I was the last time I checked.

I can say, speaking from a man's point of view, that romance in a story has its place. I do enjoy it if it is presented properly. However, there do tend to be differences in men and women when it comes to erotica. Men tend to like more descriptive sex than women. Women tend to enjoy less descriptive sex and more description on the motives and emotions.

My preference is to have a little more emotional description and slightly less descriptive sex than most men. However, I will definately tend towards more descriptive sex than emotion, given my druthers. I will also tend to enjoy the stories labeled as NC as oposed to a tale labeled "Romance" or "Consensual".

Another factor is the NC or Modification coding. I can get romance and consensual sex in my life. I don't think I will ever have those NC or Modification fantasies in my life. I don't read erotica to find what i already have/have had. I read it for what I don't/won't have. And I think that is the main factor in what I enjoy.

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I will also tend to enjoy the stories labeled as NC as oposed to a tale labeled "Romance" or "Consensual".

Another factor is the NC or Modification coding. I don't think I will ever have those NC or Modification fantasies in my life. I don't read erotica to find what i already have/have had. I read it for what I don't/won't have. And I think that is the main factor in what I enjoy.

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It's nice to hear from a man on this. I agree with H Dean on tastes in the coding. If a story starts with NC it much more fun for me. I personally do tend to like for it to lean toward consensual by the last page, but that is the romantic in me.

Any other men want to tell us what they think. :)

H Dean-
Is that a threat or a promise?

I also tend to gravitate to stories that I would never do or want done to me in real life. With most stories there is almost always something I will like on one level or another as long as I can identify somehow with a character or a scene.

For the most satisfying stories though I still need to feel somehow an emotional connection.

Gentlemen?

Hi Widget
I was suprised when I could read the stories by 2nn. His writing style made it possible to connect with the characters even with the extremely harsh actions.
If I'm not emotionally interested in the character by 200 words I just close it and go on to the next.

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Originally Posted by jessminty

H Dean-
Is that a threat or a promise?

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Hmm, either way, I suspect that I am going to half to put up. I certainly won't shut up.

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

It's nice to hear from a man on this. I agree with H Dean on tastes in the coding. If a story starts with NC it much more fun for me. I personally do tend to like for it to lean toward consensual by the last page, but that is the romantic in me.

Any other men want to tell us what they think. :)

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I failed to note that one of my preferences in a story - romance based - is to have the romance up front and the details coming later. That is, the motivation of the characters is what draws me into a tale. However, if the details aren't there after the motivation and characters are established, I do not find much thrill in a story. This is how I attempt to write, as well. I offer more details and less motivation as the story progresses. Belaboring the motivations and the romance by instilling it into every scene is not particularly enjoyable for me, nor is it realistic. Sometimes we make love and sometimes we fuck.

Incidentally, it might be nice to hear what you all think of *my latest offering to the BDSM Library. It is an effort with *Aussiegirl to create a true romance based story that integrates BDSM. It made the list today, the 10th of July and is submitted under her name.

Read it and reviewed it. I can't wait to read the rest so don't keep us waiting !!

Jessmint I think we need to go after him. Have you read how he leaves his stories hanging? He just sucks you in and then leaves you there panting.
Let me know when you finish it Dean your not tricking me again.
Well maybe.... Well damn what was that name again? Hummm where's that story. Oh you're not suppost to read that last bit.
Giggle

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Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes

Jessmint I think we need to go after him. Have you read how he leaves his stories hanging? He just sucks you in and then leaves you there panting.
Let me know when you finish it Dean your not tricking me again.
Well maybe.... Well damn what was that name again? Hummm where's that story. Oh you're not suppost to read that last bit.
Giggle

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Ah, it's done. We are just in the editing stages. After we got the story done I began editing it in parts and sending it to her for a final edit. I just sent her part 2 for her edit and she will submit it from there. I already started editing the third part and may be finished in a day or so and will be able to give it to her for the final edit.

Jess, I appreciate you getting to the story and reviewing it. Glad you like it. I just hope the rest doesn't disappoint. Aussiegirl has become a pretty damned good author and her style really lends to this sort of tale.