arrange all of you shoes in order of lowest to highest within individual colors
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arrange all of you shoes in order of lowest to highest within individual colors
thouroghly clean the frigerator wearing thigh highs and heels.
do an excersize regimine such as yoga in the buff for him to watch.
preform a strip tease dance for him.
wearing a micro-mini (no panties) and topless, wash the cieling :)
Ds
Take one small section of some delectable chocolate such as Ghirardelli...
let it just begin to melt in your mouth....
then do a slow deep throated bj on your husband.
He WILL buy more chocolate for the house, trust me. *s
I know you like bondage above all, maddie...so how about doing stuff around the house or generally spending a day bound for him? Like...having your feet or hands tied together, wearing a shibari or other kind of bondage and nothing else for him. If he's there to watch you - perfect - if not, maybe take pictures of it for him?
You could add more and more items, like plugs, nipple clamps, kinda liked the thumb bondage as well *weg*...anyway, I'm sure your man will get the idea.
As for incentives...masturbate to the edge of orgasm after every task. Do not cum. Ask for his permission to cum at the end of the day when he's checked how you've done...it's his decision.
Punishments...well, gotta think about those, lol. I'm not good with those, but I'll be back with more input later. Oh, so many ideas...;)
maddie,
get a bucket of hot soapy water and a scrub brush and get on your hands and knees and scrub all the floors that need to be washed in this manner.
the things that makes this one a little more fun
1.) you are to be nude and keep your knees wide apart keeping your sex exposed for your H's viewing pleasure ... and possibly quite more after the task is completed!
2) nipple clamps with the chain dangling down
3.) a small butt plug to be inserted before and left in for the duration of the task
Thinks this might just be your H's best birthday ever!
Woogs
Hourly teases:
This task consists of teasing your pussy for five minutes at the top of every hour. You will have three minutes at the top of every hour to find a place that is private enough to do this. A bathroom, a dressing room at a clothing store are just a couple of examples of where you can find privacy for this task.
This task is to be done every hour you are awake for two days.
You are NOT allowed to cum during this time.
Making the most of your teasing time:
The first couple of teases, you might be able to make all five minutes without stopping and without reaching orgasm, but as the hours and teasing time pile up, you will find yourself precariously close to cumming. When this happens before the five minutes has elapsed, you are to take a break, let your pussy calm down a little then finish the minutes left in your teasing time.
The Three Minute Rule:
So, if it is 11:00 AM, you have until 11:03:00 to start your tease. If the clock strikes 11:03:01 before you begin, you will be considered late.
First Late Time: Place clothespins on your nipples during the tease
Second Late Time: Place the clothespins on your nipples and tease your pussy for ten minutes instead of five.
Third Late Time: Use the slapper and slap your inner thighs 5 times each. Also know, that if you reach the third late time is reached during a day, a day will be added to your task.
Any late time after the third: Place a clothespin on each of your nipples and spank your inner times 5 times with the slapper.
*smiles* good luck!
wow what a GREAT bday present
oh boy is your Sir going to be one happy man!
Wake him up every morning with oral pleasure for a week. It's your duty to make sure you get up first. And his duty is to make sure he doesn't cheat and get up extra early. ;)
Punishment for missing a day is not being allowed to touch yourself or orgasm for the remainder of the day. Miss a second time and you miss out for the whole week (or a minimum of four days, whichever is longer). And of course you'll still be expected to deliver his pleasure anyway, even if it is late. :D
Next time you're out with Him in public, make a point of referring to him as "Sir" at least twice withing obvious earshot of someone who will hear you. It doesn't have to be blatant - slip it in somewhere. ;)
Purchase a remote control vibrator, strap it on, dress up and go out for a night on the town!
Of course, it goes without saying who gets the remote and who gets the vibrator!
Of course, this can be used for more mundane things like carpet shopping, clothes shopping, grocery shopping as maddie carefully selects the produce, ect. (I would have said shoe shopping, but it might just backfire and H would have to build a second addition on the house!)
If you can find a 'safe' spot, meet him on his lunch break for a quickie or some oral. I'm sure that would make his day!
Get the car washed; use one of the drive-throughs and masturbate during -- but naturally, don't cum until you get home and have permission. Best if you wear a jacket...and nothing else.
Depending on how concealed your back yard is, gardening in some state of undress is an option.
Collect equipment and drive your hubby to the wilderness; enjoy camping and bondage.
Y'all are proving to be as creative as I'd hoped. I love these suggestions!
Well OK- here's me thinking I could come up with something evil, & it's for your husband?? :32:
Geez take all my fun away!
I'll give it some thought. :)
Tojo
Give H the most sensual, loving bath you can give him.
maddie, you are to be nude and to be kneeling or crawling as much as possible while you are performing this task.
you are to strip H from head to toe after the bath is drawn. Let him use your shoulders to steady himself as you remove his pants and as he climbs into the tub.
suggestions:
1.) candles
2.) wine
3.) bubbles! or bath oils
4.) super soft sponge
5.) large plastic cup to rinse, or removable shower head
6.) super soft over sized towel
7.) music that sets the mood
8.) H's favorite bathrobe
9.) H's favorite slippers
10.) have soft towels on the floor around the tub to soak up the water, and to help your knees a bit
11.) fill in the blanks as you know H better than I
When you are finished bathing and drying H properly, help him into his bathrobe. Once it is on, kneel before H and bathe his feet with your tongue. After his feet are bathed for the second time, help him into his slippers.
The only punishment for this would be having to bathe unclean feet with your tongue if you do not wash them properly!!! :28:
Well, maybe slightly evil? Evil isn't necessarily bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tojo
It's hard to come up with things, without knowing much about the person concerned. I like to do my research first & learn things like how inhibited you are, what clothes you wear, what your collection of sexy undies is like & what's OK & what's a turn off.
Are you going to a restaurant for his birthday? Two options off the top of my head- wear a skirt, not too short...go to the ladies & take your panties off.
Make sure they're sexy ones.
Come back to the table with them in your hand & slip them into hubby's pocket- drop them on his lap if you dare.
Depending on how daring you are, put on a breast harness made from soft rope- make sure it's not a halter design so no one can see it. (Got to watch those ropes around the back of your neck in public)
Wear a button up blouse. When you're in a public place undo a button or two, & give him a peep at the harness.
You could also do that at home with friends around.
Anything else I'll have to share in private- certain young ladies may be reading this, I don't want to give away all my secrets! :32:
Tojo
I'm heading to the mailbox looking for my invitation right now B-rog!Quote:
Originally Posted by Balrog
I think all tasks should, in and of themselves, be fun.
Go grocery shopping in heels and a short skirt. No stooping.
Go shoe shopping. Short skirt, no panties.
Go lingerie shopping. Model anything you like before you buy.
Go furrier shopping. Model the different coats... only lingerie (or less) underneath.
Of course, the husband must approve of all purchases and that you "shopped" properly.
Let your husband chose what shoes you'll wear each day for a week, after you've already gotten dressed (or decided what outfit you will wear the night before.) You have to wear them even if it doesn't perfectly match.
I note that back at the beginning one of the things maddie noted was writing tasks, so I'll throw one of those in there since we seem a bit short on those.
Keep a "dirty thought diary" for a specified period of time. It's your job to record all your dirty thoughts and fantasies from throughout the day. Write in as much detail as time constraints allow. (I suppose if one had a shorthand writing system, this could prove tremendously useful, but it's hardly impossible without it.)
After dinner each night, you are to give your husband a reading aloud of said diary as part of his evening's entertainment. Read out everything you wrote out since the last time you read, of course. You are to play with yourself for his viewing enjoyment while you read, however you are absolutley not permitted to cum during the reading. After the reading is complete, you may then cum at husband's discretion.
Actually with that last task I listed I can think of four different "levels" one could approach it from, depending on how you wanted to go with it.
1- Simply keep the diary, and he's permitted to read it.
2- Keep the diary and read it aloud to him.
3- As I listed above.
4- As I listed above, but after you finish reading you have to act out one of the acts you read about before being permitted to cum.
So I suppose as far as tasks go this one is "season to personal taste". ;)
Some nice ideas there Tojo, :) and I think I have more than a good idea of some things you might like. It is nice to think there might be some others I don't know about yet though!:rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tojo
Maddie, I hope you are having fun reading the ideas here and that you will let us know which ones you are thinking of using. I think that jar will be full to overflowing soon, if it is not already. :)
My first post back and it's gonna be in maddie's task jar!! YAY!!!! ~hugs maddie~ So, even though a certain someone unwittingly stole one of my ideas for your task jar...~grin~ i was able to come up with a few more ideas off the top of my head.
writing assignments -
write an short essay on the importance of communication and respect in a D/s relationship.
write a short essay on your views regarding punishment in a D/s relationship and make sure to include a section on both physical and non-physical punishments.
write an essay on the difference between discipline and punishment.
here's one you can do either 2 ways...
take a deck of playing cards, shuffle them up real good and dump them in a bowl. just sit the bowl anywhere in the house that is easily accessible.
now, depending on your like or dislike of spanking, this is how you can go about it.
if you love a sensual spanking, then any time you have been good or your husband wants to reward you, he can have you go over to the bowl and randomly pick out a playing card. the card would then determine how many swats (or how many minutes...whichever would work better for you) you would get by way of a great spanking! :) for example: 3 of hearts could reward you with 3 minutes of non stop spanking...or the king of spades could earn you 20 good hard swats! ~wink~ the joker or the ace could get you more. it's definitely something you and your husband would have to work out to your personal preferences.
on the flip side...if you aren't one that enjoys spanking, you could also use the playing cards as a form of punishment. you are a bad girl and all hubby has to say is "go pull a card" and then the punishment would ensue....maybe the suit of cards determining the implement to be used during the spanking. for example: hearts=hand, spades=paddle...etc.
i loved loved LOVED Timberwolf's lil diary idea!! especially the part where you read your thoughts/fantasies aloud to your husband while masturbating...or maybe letting him play with you while you try to read...consequences if you pause, stutter or lose your place. ~grin~
i'm sure i'll think of some more ideas soon!! have fun!
everyone has such....wickedly interesting ideas!
i was given a task i quite enjoyed so i'll pass it along... (and i think it's been mentioned in some variation here) i hate grocery shopping but with the following in mind, it became quite an event. i had to pick out several items to use in play.
some were obvious - wooden spoon, i actually bought a chain link dog collar (around the neck was fun but pulling the chain out link by link well...) but others weren't - a soft brush to rub on barbeque sauce (tickles!), i got these goofy looking loofah gloves but the texture - oh my!
i have to say i enjoyed grocery shopping & imagining each thing i looked at as a possible object to use in play almost as much as using each item.
i too liked timberwolf's writing idea - especially reading it back.
hope you & your hubby are having fun!!
One task could be to sort the underwear, in the order the husband want them. If the task is not executed properly, the penalty is wearing a skirt or dress without underwear the next day, regardless of where you are going.
Y'all are giving me so many wonderful ideas for the task jar!
I bought the jar today. I wanted it to be something that I could have sitting out and not raise any suspicions. It's a replica of an old-fashioned coffee-pot and I can easily keep it out in the kitchen. It's tall enough to hold many pieces of paper and wide enough for me to get my hand inside easily.
Oh, btw. I love the new avatar maddie.
I was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
tired of looking at sexy feet in high heels. :rolleyes:
For your task jar: Go avatart hunting. (typo intended)
Happy, Oz?
:idea: Here are some things I've enjoyed doing.
1. Sleep in nothing but a collar.
2. Masturbate to 99% every morning and every evening.
3. Keep a journal which he can read anytime he wishes.
4. Squeeze your thighs together and think about your clit
every time the phone rings.
5. Perform some outdoor task with your vibe in on "high."
This task jar sounds like lots of fun! Enjoy! ;)
Thanks for that task Oz- I approve.
Thanks also to maddie for fulfilling it so well.:)
Another fun you can do is ring hubby at work- when you're wearing a nice rope harness/sexy outfit or are in some lovely compromising position.
Tell him in detail what you're wearing, or not- & ask if he has any requests...
The call could be a surprise or planned- your choice.
Tojo