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Hey everyone! My Dom and I are looking for new and interesting avenues of nipple play.

We play with clamps of all sorts, clothespins, sometimes binding, and those sucker things that are like...

Well that was crappy of him, even if it is a Master/slave dynamic most of the time. I think he should at least apologize for getting pissy with you, even if he doesn't apologize for forgetting your...

So, I'm having a problem. My Dom and I have never truly been 24/7. There have been times where we went 24/7 according to our needs, normally for a week or two at a time. Sometimes we would only do...

I wouldn't think so. The only reason I could see a Master being offended by that would be if he didn't know or if your relationship is such that it only exists for play and you guys don't know each...

There are people out there that want the same things you do and also those who would like to do what you want. What I've learned in my experince is that it's easy to point at something you don't...

Actually, he's completely aware of the trauma and has told me that it's entirely up to me whether or not we participate. Knowing him as I do, I know that he wouldn't let anything happen or tolerate...

Thanks for your imput :) And for the suggestion of the polite way to say no, that's very helpful.

Hey guys, this is something that's been on my mind lately and I figured I'd run it by all of you and see if anyone else has had this issue.

I was involvedinmy local BDSM scene for a few years when...

You're right, I did phrase that badly. That wasn't exactly what I meant.

There were certain things that were included in my abuse that I do enjoy (when they aren't being done against my will of...

As far as working this stuff out before you get into BDSM, you don't necessarily have to. You can set the limits on what you do there and be able to feel safe when you try. You might even find that,...

That's a yes/no kind of question. From what I've seen, most of the ones that actually advertise are, the biggest issue with that is finding out if they're actually Dommes or a hooker with a whip and...

Hello ladies, here's the deal.

I am not a switch, I'm a sub, but when it comes to women, I'm all Domme. My Dom wants me to find a woman for us (mainly me) to play with. I thought I'd start here...

Thanks scarlet.

You're probably right. My biggest problem is finding a place that I don't associate with cutting. Primarily I did it on my arms, but I also did it on my chest, legs, and my...

Everyone feels jealous at some point, it's a perfectly normal human emotion. Unless you become a robot, it probably won't go away, allyou can do is learn to deal. You say you love and trust him...

Hey everyone, this was just something I was thinking about and I thought I'd put it to all of you.

What made you choose the subs you have? What was it about that specific person that made you...

Jealously is a beast, that's for sure. My Dom is poly, even though we agreed when we got together that we would be monogamous. It's still hard though, I feel like I phase into the Hulk everytime...

I don't know if I necessarily kept it a secret from my family, mostly they were just too wrapped up in their own lives to really care what I was doing so it never came up. A lot of them
know now,...

My partner makes me talk about my past as well. When we first met, before we started playing, he would just let it pass and hold me until I shook off the panic. But when we set the rules for play, he...

And as a small side note to the above: my Dom and I aren't 24/7, normally we're just like any other couple. A lot of our play doesn't involve penatration of any sort. Just so you know that I can...

It's not really common, but just so you know, it is possible to explore BDSM without actually having sex. If the pain and the bondage is what you want to explore, there's really not a reason to just...

Nobody likes the devil's advocate, but I'd probably spread the word if I thought someone was dangerous. The biggest thing is to make sure that you really have a reason to. Part of the fun of being...

Honestly, that's an impossible question to answer because it completely depends on you. With only two exceptions, none of my sexual partners have ever known that I was abused. One only knew in the...

So, I have a question regarding blood play (obviously).

About two years ago, I quit cutting cold turkey. After six years and numerous attempts to stop, I actually succeeded in fighting that urge....

Apologies by the way for calling you "Wiki" instead of "Kiwi", my phone's autocorrect is out to get me

Well Wiki, that just depends on your definition of "normal". One of my best friends is in a "normal" relationship. Sex in missionary or doggy style, her idea of kinky is that they watch hentai...