i was being willful w/ my Man on the phone earlier today & didnt really realize it till after the fact. We are both very new to D/s & while He has no hesitation about being dominant in the bedroom, day to day stuff is still a work in progress. i want to be more submissive, for Him to put me in my place. i want a task to remind me when i step out of line but i'm not sure He even realizes a task would be in order. So here's my question...should i "top from the bottom" & say 'hey, i was bad, make me do something' or should i just do something & say 'i did so & so to remind myself i belong to You'? Or is there another answer that i havent thought of??