I dont know if I should be here, i am a vanilla guy, and while talking to some sub, i got to know abt this alternate lifestyle... i immediately got attracted towards this... although nothing hardcore... simple control stuff.. i thought I wanted to keep an identity as a online DOM since i dont think i want to try anything in real as yet.... but then it looks like everytime i am horny.. i visit this site... look up personals... chat in irc... and thats it...

I dont know if i shud be here... help me understand myself...

Also since now i am horny... i am thinking of this stuff... and i want to know if a mature sub can mentor a newbie DOM?