Hello, as you can see I am new here, I hope posting in this section is OK.

I have a question.

How do you go about finding a relationship partner who shares similar kinks? Or what is the best way to talk to your current partner about any kinks you might have?

I have been talking to some girls at my university but I have been hesitant to really get into a relationship with any of them due to not knowing how to approach the issue.

I guess I would be considered the dominate as I am trying to find a female "sub" who really enjoys bondage and submitting, the S&M area isn't something I am personally interested in though.

Any advice on this would be great -

Thank you,