Apologies if this has been asked before. I'm curious for any tips and tricks you have regarding safe rough anal sex.

I have a play partner who wants to be able to have rough, hard anal sex. We already have had non-rough anal, and we have silicone toys and a heavy-duty anal lube. The trick is, I don't want to be actually injured, or hurt more than is sexy.

I have been learning a lot from him, and would love to hear some perspective from the board.