This is pretty much a rhetorical question, as our BDSM is pretty much confined to the bedroom, but I do fantasize about a 24/7 relationship sometimes and what that would entail. One thing that has always intrigued me is the idea of the sub/slave choosing his/her own punishment after misbehaving. If you do this, how does it work out for you? Do you choose something you think your dom would choose, what you think you deserve, or the lightest you can get away with? Why do you choose what you do?