Break-ups are never nice to say the least, especially when you're the one being dumped and still very much want to be in the relationship. But I have two questions, which are linked:

Do you think a BDSM relationship often has a tendancy to be much more intense than a vanilla relationship, and if so, do you think this higher intensity affects how long it takes to get over that relationship?

I look forward, as always, to hearing your views :-)