I've recently had a submissive friend of mine email me about her dominant. Apparently he has started an online relationship with another sub. Now he has been up front about it, but she (my friend) has some insecurity issues and he knows it. They are mostly to do with her physical appearance and the new girl is younger, thinner, and prettier. There is a chance that this new girl will be meeting with him in person. Now my friend doesn’t want to say anything to him because she is insecure and wants to please him, but this is scaring her. She has asked for my advice. My first instinct is to tell her to tell him he needs to choose (they’re married by the way) between her and his online girl. It seems to me that if he cared about her happiness and took his responsibility as her dominant seriously he wouldn’t pull this on her. But I’m a bit on the over-protective side when it comes to my friends so I thought I would run it by all of you. Do you think it is the responsibility of the dominant to take care of her needs above his own? Seems selfish and petty to me to do what he is doing. Your thoughts?