hi

As we all know its generally accepted that all couples taking part in BDSM should use a safe word or phrase. Our phrase is 'chocolate teapot' and until yesterday velvet (my sub) had never used this phrase.

I had velvet do the housework dressed in a short skirt, stocking and suspender and a plunging top. She was also wearing rope round her tits and a dildo in her pussy so to say it was interesting and frustrating is a slight understatement.

So after doing this for a while I took her clothes of her and started to paddle her tits, especially onto her nipples. Because the windows in the house were open she was a bit cold, so this and the fact her tits were tied up for about 2 hours made her nipples really sensitive.

After about 20 minutes of playing she had enough, she was crying out 'stop stop', but of course that doesn't really mean stop - that just means it hurts a bit. Eventually she said 'chocolate teapot' and I immediately stopped and unroped her. Its the first time she's every said the phrase and admitted afterwards she was disappointed in herself but the pain was just too much. Her nipples were still sensitive later in the day so it must have been sore.

When was the first time (if ever) you or your sub have used their safe word or phrase.