So I'm facing a dilemma.

I've been with my current boyfriend for the past 1 1/2 yr or so. We've hit a few rough spots, but have worked them out and become a stronger couple for it. He knows I come to this site (been reading for a while, just never made an account) and knows I'm into bondage a bit, but I'm not sure how to tell him that I want to really bring the Dom/sub scene into the bedroom. Normally we are very open with each other, and suggesting new ideas has never been a problem. I'm just not sure how to approach this particular topic with him...

So how do you tell someone that you want them to dominate you?

Heh...dilemma #2: I'm also pretty new to the bondage, D/s world...is it better to enter with someone who knows what they are doing, or to start with a 'virgin' and sort of experiment together?