I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years almost. She is very into BDSM, I've done what I can to satisfy that urge but she doesnt think its enough. Essentially she feels like I am acting and she says its not the same, she needs someone to actually feel the feelings associated with domination. I feel like I can do a good job but I need to know what this is all about mentally, I need a strong base understanding of domination. Can anyone help me? My relationship hinges on this.