WB and I have been playing a bit harder lately, things like me having to beg for 30- 40 spanks with a spanker to cum and lots of cumming in different positions in one night. Not being into a lot of pain, the begging to cum via spanks, plus the spanks, really makes me feel very submissive (and horny).

This submission has recently been sending me into what we assume is subspace, which is great. The only thing is for me, it seems to be connected with tears ( which last night were sobs). After this I feel very blank and WB talks to me until he sees me smiling and knows I am feeling ok again. We have not gone on for too long after I start to cry, as we are unsure if we should or not!

What I am curious about is:-

For the subs - Have you experienced tears like I have when playing hard? Have you pushed past the tears, and if so, do you go to a more calm and peaceful zone?

For the Doms - Have you experienced this with your subs? Do you think it is subspace? Have you pushed a sub past tears and if so, what happened?

Do you think it is ok to push through tears, when they are not associated with pain or hurt but with the very strong emotions brought about by the play?

Looking forward to reading your views on this or hearing of your experiences.

AG