This one might be for the newbies (such as myself) who are looking for potiential Dominants as they make their search into the lifestyle... i believe it should be relax and calm, it shouldnt be alike a formal interview as if ur out on a job search.

what are some of the questions you would come up with? (anyone can answer this question, Domiinants, submissives, attached submissive, slaves attached Dominants, all replies welcome)

Well some that i came up with:


How long have you been into the lifestyle? How did your last relationship end? Are you active in the community(if its real time) or are you an avid poster in the forums( if its online)?
What do you feel makes a "proper" submissive? are you into protocol out right or do you go with the flow and let the submissive choice when she feels ready to call you Sir(or anything else he or she wants to be called)?

i'll post some of the questions ive read from other sites...

i think its a good thing when a Dominant encourages a submissive to ask questions, wanting to get a feel for them and not just jump right into their panties. We dont have a lie detector embedded into our brains but we have gut feelings, that we should listen to when something doesn't feel quiet right. We should listen to that feeling and step away from the situtation and call that a learning experience.