hi my name is matt and ive been experimenting with BDSM with my girlfriend for about 3 months now, we have been together for 5 months but already we are both happy with the roles we have discovered, im fairly new to BDSM but already we have tried a few things like blindfolds, handcuffs and collars and usually when one of us suggest something we try it almost straight away. but about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend suggested that i be more aggressive with her and physically hit her, im ok with spanking but how can i physically bring my self to hit her, i could never bring myself to harm her in any way.
if ANYONE has any advice as to how i should procced i would be very greatfull