Things have got a little wierd recently. Not sure what is going on. I suppose I had better explain...

On Facebook earlier this year I met a woman who I talked to a lot online. Didn't know she was anything to do with BDSM at the time, just liked talking to her. We got on really well and started sharing a lot of private things. At the time we were both married (I still am, she isn't, long story and not mine to share) and simply enjoying having someone to talk to who shared interests. During the course of our talks I discovered that she was practising BDSM to an extent. She was polyamourous with her husband and had several subs who she played with online. She already knew I was involved in the scene to an extent and that I was a sub. So, almost inevitably, we ended up doing a couple of cam sessions. There has been no formal arrangement made - I am still married and not looking for another relationship she is seperated but seeing other men on a long term occasionally vanilla basis - but I can feel it slipping more and more into a 'Domme/sub relationship' that is more than 'just occasional play'

Am I reading too much into this? Is there something I should do about it? If I talked to her, am I likely to scare her away and ruin the friendship? I suppose it is the age-old dilemma but with a BDSM twist... which is more important - the BDSM or the friendship? Or is is possible to have both?

Just curious to see what you all think out there...