i am thinking about getting a new boyfriend and as my name tells you sex is not really an option as of yet when i decide and no i am not a prude. i have almost purely manual relationships which i am quite happy with but the only real option i have with them so far is masterbation which quite frankly they can do for themselves which pisses them off and i am quite fed up of as well i even tried prostrate rubing on one but he had the pain threshhold of a five year old and said my nails were too long.i was just wondering if there is anything else i might try, what feels good? what turns you on and brings you off without the actual intercouse aspects?