Okay, here's the situation:

Our circle of friends consists mostly of BDSM people, or at least people who accept that kind of lifestyle as fine, and in our case it is all male subs and Dommes (it's funny how you just wind up attracting others like yourself). One of our male friends was recently dumped (rather harshly; she went away for a few weeks, met some other guy, and broke it off over the phone; it was horrible), and I kinda took him under my wing and am dominating him for just plain, regular-life kind of things, to try to comfort him.

For example, he'll text me to ask what he should have for dinner or what to buy when he's grocery shopping or what TV shows he should watch tonight; all innocent, non-sexual things. He went out to 7-11 the other night without my permission in order to buy cookie dough, so I punished him by telling him he couldn't eat cookies for a week. I feel sorry for him because I know how badly he needs this, and I was wondering if anybody had any other ideas for non-sexual domination (that can be done from a distance most of the time, because I really do have a life).