Hi all,
I had a discussion with my slave recently, where she said that knowing I have had experience as a sub has helped her to have confidance in me, especially as this is her first D/s experience.
It's no coincidence that I've only subbed under those who have also had sub experience. I'm just more comfortable listening to the voice of experience.
I'm interested in hearing the opinions of others who have, or who's partner has, been in both or only one or the other D/s role. Which makes you feel more or less confident in yourself and/or your partner, or is it not an issue?
I'm asking because I'm thinking about finding a mentor to help me be a better Dom, so I want to know if my opinion is preference or prejudice.
Thanks!