waxing.

Ok, i know lots of baring the nether region threads are out there, but after some time perusing, i couldn't find any tips on SELF waxing.

I tried Nair, doesnt work. I tried shaving.. but I can't keep it bare, it takes at least 4 days before it isnt painful to shave. Not only that but i cant stand those 4 days of itchyness.
Yet, my b/f insists on it being bare. And since he returns the favor, i dont mind.. i just... grrr need help here lol.

I tried waxing, i've got a 'sugar waxing kit' and it doesnt work half bad. I tried it, but it leaves half the hair there, and it takes 4 more excruciating tries to get the last part. So, out of curiosity, i tried my legs, and it works great there. So i think im just doing something wrong........

any interesting tips and tricks??? im going nuts here.

thanks,
Teni

ps.. i also tried tweezing, but working and running a house just doesnt leave me enough hours to tweeze all of it, or i would, cuz its the most effective one i've tried yet.