Now that I have posted a few times, I need to have this question answered.
I am still trying to determine if this is the lifestyle I truly want. I do have a Vanilla b/f who does not share my fantasies and wants
I have been on other sites and have perused the blogs, questions, and forums.
My question is this: It is of my opinion so far that subs have a difficult time keeping a Master, as Masters only train or then become bored of the routine.
I am wondering how difficult it is to find someone who will share your interests and let you be a sub to thier Dom without fear of being let go for boredom. Is there a place where you can actually find a realtionship or is it all just play? If it is just play, then keeping your current Vanilla relationship is a justifiable reason and playing on the side would be even more justifiable.
Please advise.