Hey there,

I've just had a nice and looong girl's night with a friend. Lots of talk about sex and guys and all the stuff that's fun to do. It's amazing how open we're able to talk. The time would have been perfect to come out with some of the things that have become such a big part of my life, but again...I kept my silence. Threw out a few hints and then went back to just smiling quietly.

You know, I'd actually love to be able to be more open. I'm not used to keeping important parts of my life secret for so long. And I'm not talking about giving my friends all the juicy details - that's private. Just a general idea of what I'm into, not having to close down the internet every time someone is around, being able to be open about why I've been wearing a collar for months, sharing about the most wonderful relationship I'm in. But the time obviously wasn't there tonight.

So, I'm curious - who of you has 'come out' about your kinky side? How did it go? Would you want to be more open but haven't found the courage? Do you keep everything private? Why?

I'm looking forward to your stories.

Silke