I have been in and out of this forum on various names for about a year and a half. I find myself being distracted with work and school but in this time, anytime a relationship opportunity came into view I would not go anywhere with it. I would wonder if my love for submission ruin the relationship. which brings me to my first question does anyone find it hard starting a relationship not knowing if the persons sexual desires are the same? Also if you and your partners desires are vastly different do you feel cut off, not being able to express that part of yourself sexually?