I am always fascinated by the stories of how people knew or discovered that they were a submissive. Anyone care to share?
In my case, I sort of always knew. When I was as young as four or five, I'd con friends into playing games that involved spankings or being tied up. I remember once I was at a friend's house and they wanted to play "doctor"...I managed to finagle my way into being the patient every single turn so they could examine me. I fantasized aboutbeing dominated and controlled--and especially about being spanked--for most of my childhood. When I was fifteen or sixteen I stumbled across a hardcore bdsm story on writing.com, and was fascinated, repulsed, and aroused by what I'd read. I started doing research and reading more and learning more and five years later, here I am. Still reading and learning, only now it's legal for me to do so. lol.
Sorry if there's already a thread like this. I didn't see one on the first or second pages. :-/