Dirty names calling during sex...

[MrJerseyGuy]

OK...this is one of those stupid threads that I'm starting 'cause its really late and this is on my mind...but I'll bet I get some interesting feedback!

I like to be...shall we say "vocal" during sex. My girlfriend has an issue with three words...slut, whore and cunt. (Issues from a previous marriage that are probably worthy of therapy) I've never understood the problem every woman seems to have with the word "cunt"...ya all have one but ya all seem to hate that word!

Anyway, earlier during an enthusiatic session...I threw "bitch" and "tramp" out there...that seemed to go over OK. Anybody have suggestions for alternative degrading and insulting names?

Not that I like insulting her...I love her dearly...but when you have a fistful of her hair and are ramming it home, you just gotta have something to say!

[GaryWilcox]

Anybody have suggestions for alternative degrading and insulting names?

You shouldn't call her this, because it's a grade nastier than cunt, but snatch is a word that seems to burn women's ears. Refer to her sex as a snatch, and that can do the trick just as well as calling her a snatch.

And in the position you're in, doggie is one alternative to bitch that's fun and degrading (in that good way). Certainly, commanding her to bark and pant (or maybe seguing into this by pointing out that she's already panting) is a good way to bring on humiliation.

On the library, a well-placed fucktoy is always fun. Overused, it loses all meaning.

Delia's journal has a very interesting part where she talks about really enjoying being treated like a boy, and called faggot during anal sex.

[cyndylu]

MrJerseyGuy - Your sub may have been emotionally abused with those words at some time. That she’s confided she doesn’t like those words sounds to me like she trusts you.

The response you get will differ every time. The “c” word has different meanings:

You cunts are all alike!
Ummmm, I love the taste of your sweet cunt.
C’mere and rub that cunt on me.
Whadda cunt!

Personally, I reserve the title of “cunt” for women that I dislike and nothing will change the way I feel about them. ..... 'cause they're cunts!

As for something to say, why not compliment her from time to time with something along the lines of how happy her cunt makes you. As for slut and whore try setting boundaries for the usage - talk to her about the words that bother her and look her in the eye and assure her they aren’t intended to hurt her. I should think more on the subject before saying anything but there ARE things I’m perfectly comfortable saying (and hearing) in the bedroom that are not part of my vocabulary anywhere else.

[MrJerseyGuy]

I'm very sensitive to her concerns. Although I forgot about "fucktoy" I do like to use that one often!

[rlsk]

Floozy? Trollop? Harlot? Strumpet?

*hides her Roget's* Ahem. ^_^

[slavelucy]

Could i just add (aka - i'm gonna add!) that i think that equally important is how you say something...the reason i say this is because when i think of some of the things my dominant says to me, it is usually about the way he says them, as much as what he says. For instance, i might be..um *pauses*...on orgasm deprivation; horny, pitiful and he'll only have to say "oh, you poor sweet slut" - and it's unbelievably horny. i have to say this is even true in the written word, once you know someone well.

*blushing madly*

Anyway, um, that's it!

sl