New member looking for info

[vegeta222000]

Joined the bdsmL about 5 minutes ago. Looking for someone to help me with some ideas. Girlfriend likes rough sex but I have no experience being rough. HELP!

[blythe spirit]

I'm sure with more information, you'll find someone here to help you out.

[Barrie_Dude]

Lucky Guy! Just find out what she wants. Tell her to be specific. Work out some parameters, safe words and have fun. But always respect her limits!

[shanghai65]

When you say your girlfriend likes rough sex, do you mean she likes you to be forceful and aggressive in sex, or do you mean she likes to experience pain ( a little or a lot?) such as by slapping or pinching or whipping or caning?

Shanghai 65

[Ozme52]

Good question shanghai.

[vegeta222000]

She likes me to be forceful and aggressive. She wants me to tell her what to do... also likes it when I grab her by the throat and enjoys having her hands/arms pinned down. She really isnt in to anything painful...

Thanks for your response!

[Ozme52]

She likes me to be forceful and aggressive. She wants me to tell her what to do... also likes it when I grab her by the throat and enjoys having her hands/arms pinned down. She really isnt in to anything painful...

Thanks for your response!

Try capturing and tying her hands behind her back... Take her front and rear.

From the front she's totally helpless to fend you off.

From behind, you can use her arms for leverage, can totally control her hips... can rein her with her hair.

All hot moments for the rough and ready lady.

[Logic1]

Things like that is touch and feel. Trial and error but be careful and if she says stop then you better stop!
Hard to give you any pointers but all relationships needs an open discussion so sit down with her and talk through it. What she wants of you and what she dont want.
If you guys are open to eachother then I am sure you guys will find a way to great sex. That is ofcourse if you like the finer things in life, that she seems to like