When Doms hit on Dommes

[ValKyrie]

What's the deal?
Is it the spirit of the chase or fun in knowing that it will get no where?

I wondered why Dominant males would repeatedly approach Dominant females.

I and some of my other Domme friends have shared similar experiences and have our own ideas, but I wondered if any of the men and women here would care to share their ideas/experiences on the matter.

(No, no one here has approached me in this fashion which is why I chose this BB to bring up the discussion.)

Mistress Val

[BDSM_Tourguide]

I know several dominant couples. Mostly, they carry out their DS relationships away from their relationship, unless they happen to be playing at the same party or using their submissives together in some fashion.

Typically, it works out fine. It's just a non-standard form of relationship is all.

[ValKyrie]

Well, I am involved with my lover, partner, submissive and friend. I am not looking for anyone at this juncture. This is common knowledge at another BB I visit and yet, I keep getting approached by Dominant males.

Interesting.....

[Gallardo]

Speaking for myself, it is a great turn on to break an unbreakable/unwilling woman so to speak. Forced, non-consensual domination of an once confident and strong woman is a favorite fantasy of mine. It's similar to male students raping a female gym (karate) teacher but it doesn't have to be physical. In fact, I prefer the woman to break down mentally or both. Forced to submit body and soul =P

Maybe this helps?

[Learn Humility]

I'd agree with that.

Although I've never attempted to Dom a Domme, in general, the greater the challenge, the greater the satisfaction.

[AndrewBlack]

Maybe you look great and they just fancy you?

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Speaking for myself, it is a great turn on to break an unbreakable/unwilling woman so to speak. Forced, non-consensual domination of an once confident and strong woman is a favorite fantasy of mine. It's similar to male students raping a female gym (karate) teacher but it doesn't have to be physical. In fact, I prefer the woman to break down mentally or both. Forced to submit body and soul =P

Maybe this helps?

Yeah, I have seen a few boobs in chat before think they're going to "conquer" the dominant female and make her their slave before. You could always tell the ones that were dealing with women that were sure of themselves and that knew exactly what they wanted, because they were the ones that got sent packing and disappointed.

[ValKyrie]

Yeah, I have seen a few boobs in chat before think they're going to "conquer" the dominant female and make her their slave before. You could always tell the ones that were dealing with women that were sure of themselves and that knew exactly what they wanted, because they were the ones that got sent packing and disappointed.

This seems to be the scenarios that I find myself in.

Perhaps these particular Doms are truly into humiliation at the hands of a FemDomme!

[ValKyrie]

Speaking for myself, it is a great turn on to break an unbreakable/unwilling woman so to speak. Forced, non-consensual domination of an once confident and strong woman is a favorite fantasy of mine. It's similar to male students raping a female gym (karate) teacher but it doesn't have to be physical. In fact, I prefer the woman to break down mentally or both. Forced to submit body and soul =P

Maybe this helps?

Perhaps, the submissive for you is the woman who is a power person in her job, assertive in her daily life and when she comes home, begins on bended knee with eyes lowered?

Thank you for honesty, however, I don't believe in forced submission. I don't feel that it is truly submission if it needs to be forced, taken or the subbie is to be broken.

Regardless of the role that subbie was playing before she met you.