Abused

[bug]

fantasies?

You want to know what goes on in my head all day?

are You sure?

here's wishing her Master would abuse her more. wishing He would take advantage of her more and maybe even beat her up like a bad pet! i love to be scolded and i can't resist being bad. i love it when He's mean, i can't help it...

wishing He'd come snatch me up and force me into His Dungeon and have His way with me forever......

wanting to be captured and kept and never let free after He brands my rear with His mark.

i guess that's about all i needed to share *w* *giggles*

until a month ago i thought i was the only one Wwho enjoyed these things. i am happy to have been wrong

*smiles*

[Wildcard]

:help:
So many times a day I wish a strong confident master would comenad take me away to a dungeon. Lock me away from the world, so it wouldn't be my fault when everything in my life wasn't done. Having no choice but to obey, to learn his rules and try not to be punished to, to much. Being a good pet, a slutty girl for his desires. I've dreamt about this for so long. Maybe we can get taken awy together bug.

[Ruby]

Bug and Wildcard

A delicious fantasy to be sure.

The words "ravished" and "well used" come to mind.

Yup, sounds like you'd be yummy slaves catering to his every whim and he could punish you for absolutely NOTHING!

Thanks for being so brave and sharing your fantasies. You are definately not alone.

Ruby

[bug]

*giggles* :cuffs: i was much to coy to say what i was really wanting to type before but i am ready to say it now...

i am the helpless victim...my favorite sexual card to play, i wish i had enough in my deck to drive Him wild every second of the day.

He and i talked about a fantasy that Wwe both would enjoy enough to travel for, as Wwe have never met r/t before Oour interest stems from being kidnap, bound, tied up and gagged and stripped of every way out, *with a sad little expression*, being dragged off to His dungeon *the forest works too*, and being raped by Him. not in some metaphorical sense either, the slapping, hitting, slamming, bitting, pushing, pinning and choking as well. i'd even give the sadden expression filled with terror because it would be such a delight to see Him take every ounce of power and tear me down... :spank me:

i guess that would be humiliation? :shake: as i have never had any sense of liking that. i have always enjoyed the 'i love you, Nnobody can have you and if Tthey do i'll kill you' expression with Him....

oh He is my God! :hail: Blade

i loves a good man handling...and i loves a good scene too. *giggles* i have not considered this one until He brought it up but it has been in my thoughts of late.

lemme know any opinion, if any are had.....


your pal 'buggins'

[Mobius]

Ok I have a question, That has plaqued me for quite a while. It seems that allot of woman have rape and abuse fantasy's. While I as a sane indevidual know in R/l rape is wrong and should be punished to the fullest extent of the law etc and all that PC claptrap.

So what happens in R/L for a lovely individual such as your self when your walking down the dark deserted street to your car. When you are all of a sudden atacked and taken with out your consent. Raped, used savagly and then tossed to the wind like so much exess bagage. Of course you would be shell shocked and feel abused and invaded. Hating any mans tuch from then on etc etc of all the cleacha that I have see no on TV.

Now I know the equivelent feeling for a man would be anal rape by buba in jail. I know for sure that is not one of the things that I fantasies about. So why do woman fantasies about rape? Yes I know they dont all fantasies about it but it seems to be a common thing.

Does the attacker have to be utterly handsome and caring in his attact. Like to cuddle after the event. I sopose not. But why the disimetry. It is OK to fantasies about it. But I hope it never accurs to you in real life. It would probly ruin your life.

[Ranai]

So why do woman fantasies about rape?

Mobius, I can't answer your question, unfortunately...
I am not so hopeful that you will get an answer. I think it is not really possible to answer questions of the type 'Why does someone else have sexual fantasies about X ?'.

One potentially useful remark, however. Perhaps your perception is influenced by your choice of literature. There are lots and lots of sex stories about men who get raped, in jails and other environments. Written by men who obviously have sexual fantasies about rape and enjoy writing them down in gory detail. With all the feelings of helplessness, pain, despair etc.

So your question probably needs to be: 'Why do some submissives have fantasies about being raped?'
And, perhaps: 'Why do some dominants have fantasies about raping someone?'
Not to mention the third person fantasies, where one watches a rape scene.

But, as I said, I don't think we can know the reasons for sexual fantasies.

[GaryWilcox]

Can a mod split this for us into its own thread? I'd like to talk about this too, but I don't want to commandeer bug's thread...

[bug]

Mobius i understand Your thoughts and concerns about the fantasy i have described above. there are lots of Ppeople r/t that have asked me why would i ever want this to happen? to try and respond to Yours and Oothers thoughts and concerns i have to admit i have been raped r/t and it scarred me pretty good. for a long time i lived with thoughts of suicide and grief but there is an old saying that saved me:

"Yyou have the choice to get up and move on or to sit in your own shit and smell it forever."

and of course one of my famous sayings:

"it is Oour duty to fall down in life and Oour choice to stand up again"

another good point also being that there is also a matter of trusting one's Master and trusting that He would never hurt her because He didn't like her yet that He liked to make her happy and was pleased she likes to please Him. when i picked a collar i accepted Him because i trust Him not because i had to. so the point of being uncomfortable goes away when in actual r/t rape the uncomfortablity levels are out the roof. He has a good heart and i trust Him in whatever He does. Wwe Aall have had freaky sexual thoughts *pointing around and smiling*

i am certainly not the kinda woman that walks around with a corn cob of deceit in my rear *giggles* life happens whether Wwe are ready for it or not and it doesn't stop because i am sad *chuckles*

my Master is extremly handsome in a mysterious way and He better cuddle me after raping me or He'd never rape me again under my consent, although He is usually pretty good about aftercare and such (or at least as much as one can be o/l *chuckles*). but with all bdsm scenes isn't Oone cautioned for Ttheir Oown sanity to communicate afterwards. the key to a good scene is communication, yes? i mean bdsm is all about pain and pleasure wrapped into one, yes? what would be so fascinating about bdsm if Wwe had horrible things Wwe didn't want done to Uus done, wouldn't that then be considered rape, abuse and warrent jail time too?

Ranai, i fantasize about control, power, being a helpless victim under the destruction of Someone i trust inside and fear outwardly. i am drawn to the powerful mean man imagine that runs in my head all day long. i am not ashamed that He is there. *chuckles, oh that is hot*

i feel that torture awaits Eevery single individual in r/t and that i just 'grab it by the balls' in a sense. 'get Tthem before Tthey get Yyou' kinda attitude. for a long time i had evaded these thoughts thinking i was sick for wanting to be tortured to get off but i am no longer surpressed by Ttheir views *w*

as far as Dom's having fantasies about raping someone, i am sure that the fascination is probably along the same lines of abuse with power. Mobius do You have fantasies about controlling a woman? if You saw me would You want to hurt me in a good kinda way? a man involved into Dom bdsm obviously enjoys being able to have complete control over something or someone. always getting what He wants and never having to ask twice. it is the nature of the Beast, yes? *gosh that turned me on*

this also might boil down to Ttheir own inferior need to control because of lack of control in His Oown life. i am speaking out my ass here, i am not sure but it is a good guess eh? my Master has said, 'so i can control You better' a lot and i guessing that He lacks it outwardly and i'm happy to devote myself to better His sexual pleasure as i hope He is too *w*

and i am totally game for being watched, that even adds to the fantasy a little more....*whew is it hot in here*?


thanks for the juicy replies...Yyou Aall are a fun bunch *w*



ps...these are great questions and valid points...i am okay with any questions You might have as well Gary Wilcox *s*

[Mobius]

There is alot to think about. First off Yes I do have fantasys about utterly controling woman, Bending them to my will. But what keeps me from ever acting on such a fantasy is that I have a large amount of emphathy twards my fellow humans and animals. While i love a good bondage and tortore scene like the next perv. I do not want to see any one suffer for any reason. So I am not turned on by whipping, burning, Long needles through varius body parts etc.

Oh and I do not fantasys about male anal rape. Yea I know "doth protest too much' as the saying goes but I assure you this time it is real.

I am sorry that you experianced a rape in real time and congradulate you that you survived it and put it behind you. Not having experianced what a woman goes through I can not speak of your pain.

But one last question. If you know your master and trust him then it realy is not rape but more of rough sex you are speaking of.

Rape to me is total not consentual actack. Your walking down an ally and a large gang of thugs take the bag of groucerys away from you. Produce a switchblade knife and take you over and over again brutaly. Then walking away laphing at your bruised and batterd body. That would be a rape.

Not the kind of scene that a master and a slave would do. Were your laying on the couch with a box of bon bons and he cruely snatches it away. Grabbing you by the hair he roughly throughs you over the end of the couch and takes you with out any regard to your pleasure. Pounding into you over and over again. As he smacks your ass with his hand. And grabs your throte with the other. After he has had his fill of your bruised and batterd body he casualy walks over to the counter and picks up his half eaton tuna fish sandwitch. As the cum starts to roll out of your vagina...


Sorry got a little carried away
Mobius

[robbermagnet]

So why do woman fantasies about rape?

Well, I remember reading in "My Secret Garden," a book about female sexual fantasies that was popular in the late 70s, that women sometimes fantasize about rape because they secretly yearn to do those things the rapist makes them do. If they aren't choosing to engage in these sexual acts, then they can't be held responsible and considered "bad girls." The theory is that rape fantasies are basically a product of a repressed society.

I think it's important to remember that in a rape fantasy, the woman who is fantasizing can stop what's happening, and so there is still consent. At the point where she wants to stop, it stops. For that reason, I don't see that real rape has anything in common with fantasy rape. Real rape is an extreme violation of boundaries. A fantasy is safe, and even if it has some ugly elements, it's still choreographed by the woman who is fantasizing it.