What do u think of gang bangs??

[Mrlover]

Do you feel Gangbangs play an important part in bdsm? Have you had one before...ie 1 girl 20 guys etc.

Did you enjoy it or were you forced?

[Bald_J_and_F]

Do you feel Gangbangs play an important part in bdsm? Have you had one before...ie 1 girl 20 guys etc.

Did you enjoy it or were you forced?

No thanks.

[charlestudor]

do any guys have fantasies about gang bangs? like being taken by a gang of bikers? jocks? women with strap-ons? :atm:

[Mrlover]

Most slaves like gang bangs and if they don't they learn very quickly

[Ruby]

I certainly hope you are joking about that last line.

A hard limit is a hard limit.
An unwanted gang bang is rape.

If in your fantasy, every slave eventually wants to experience or looks forward to this activity, then let's be clear that it is indeed a fantasy.

I'm wondering if you meant to put this thread into my BDSM life and not sexual fantasy.

To answer the original question for real life:
No, for me it's not important.
No, for my pet.
Yes, he's experienced them in the past.
No, he doesn't want to be shared in that way now.
Therefore, its something we can both do without.

For fantasies, reading, writing, and mental role play:

Whoo hoo! The thought can be quite arousing!

["Roof"]

do any guys have fantasies about gang bangs? like being taken by a gang of bikers? jocks? women with strap-ons? :atm:

No, all my fantasies on gangbangs are where males are compelling sexual service from a pretty coed or female office co-worker. The more so if she's been the goody-goody type who leaves a trail of unsatisfied erections in her wake.

[Mrlover]

Mosts subs love a good gang bang..some need a coerced introduction but once they've tried like it most slutty subs they come back for more and more.

I've heard of subs getting "surprised" when entering a hotel room and getting gang banged by up to 40 guys which was organized over the net without her the sub being aware.

Anyway if they want to be a sub then well she needs to take the "full course" if she wants to graduate

BDSM is about perversion in many instances by mainstream society and there is a good reason for it in many instances.....I being into BDSM can freely admit this......and this is another way to justify many dom's perversion with gang bangs.

I have met many people in dens whom are into bdsm and quite frankly most of them are freaky, disturbed or just plain fucked up. I don't class myself with the rest as I can see the wood from the trees................but with the majority of these people i would never consider associating with them in any form or way

[Finding_Fantasy]

Mosts subs love a good gang bang..some need a coerced introduction but once they've tried like it most slutty subs they come back for more and more.

Not all submissives are slutty or are sexual submissives. Myself, I am more of a task oriented submissive such as chores, making our home clean and comfortable, making meals etc. Sex, for me, has nothing to do with BDSM. To classify submissives into one group is entirely the wrong thing to do. I know for a fact that I would not learn to enjoy gang bangs once I have experienced one. I know myself well enough to state that with confidence.

I've heard of subs getting "surprised" when entering a hotel room and getting gang banged by up to 40 guys which was organized over the net without her the sub being aware.

Anyway if they want to be a sub then well she needs to take the "full course" if she wants to graduate

If my dominant ever 'surprised' me with a gand bang or even forced me to have sex with anyone else without my consent he would be out the door as fast as humanly possible. Forcing someone to have sex with someone else is, in my opinion, rape by proxy. I am a submissive to one person and one person only and if I were forced into this situation, the trust for my dominant would be gone and I wouldn't be able to submit to him any longer. If it is an activity that your submissive wants and has agreed to, then, by all means, go for it. But to say that she needs to do it to graduate is actually kind of scary in a phyco kind of way

BDSM is about perversion in many instances by mainstream society and there is a good reason for it in many instances.....I being into BDSM can freely admit this......and this is another way to justify many dom's perversion with gang bangs.

To you, BDSM may be about perversion. But for others, like myself, BDSM is about allowing someone you trust to take control. I could never trust someone once they have forced me into a gang bang. The only way to justify a gang bang would be if all involved agreed to it including the submissive.

Finally, there is a phrase many in BDSM use: Safe, Sane, and Consensual - Consensual being the most important, in my opinion because if all are not in agreement, no matter how much you may think the submissive wants it, it is still called abuse.

Reading posts like these makes me very concerned as to where BDSM is going and what the perceived idea of a submissive really is. Is she a human being with limits that should be respected? Or is she just a tool with which to satisfy yourself and your fantasies regardless of how she may feel about it?

[Rosie]

Anyway if they want to be a sub then well she needs to take the "full course" if she wants to graduate

I'm assuming that you're pulling our chain with this thread. But… graduating to what?

[Blue_Monday]

Mosts subs love a good gang bang..some need a coerced introduction but once they've tried like it most slutty subs they come back for more and more.

Be very careful with generalizations like this. Not a single sub on this particular forum has yet admitted to enjoying r/l gang-bang situations, although I would agree that it's probably a very common fantasy.

Anyway if they want to be a sub then well she needs to take the "full course" if she wants to graduate

I trust the wink means you're joking. REALLY joking. Being a sub doesn't mean giving in to anything, up to and including rape. This sort of statement is guaranteed to offend.

Mr. Lover, I think it would be helpful if you clarified whether you're talking in terms of fantasy or r/l gang bangs. Clearly many of us who wouldn't dream of it in r/l, love the fantasy.

On that note, in fantasy-land, bring on the football team! W00t!

[His_pita]

Mosts subs love a good gang bang..some need a coerced introduction but once they've tried like it most slutty subs they come back for more and more.

I've heard of subs getting "surprised" when entering a hotel room and getting gang banged by up to 40 guys which was organized over the net without her the sub being aware.

Yeah, that's called rape.

Anyway if they want to be a sub then well she needs to take the "full course" if she wants to graduate

Right!

I have met many people in dens whom are into bdsm and quite frankly most of them are freaky, disturbed or just plain fucked up. I don't class myself with the rest as I can see the wood from the trees................but with the majority of these people i would never consider associating with them in any form or way

Are you sure you’re seeing woods and not just your inflated ego?

Mr. Lover you obviously like getting a rise out of people by posting inflammatory comments that have no basis in truth whatsoever. I hope they don’t ban you because I find you quite entertaining.

[r0mantique]

Do you feel Gangbangs play an important part in bdsm? Have you had one before...ie 1 girl 20 guys etc.

Did you enjoy it or were you forced?

It is one of my fantaisies, but I don't know if i am able to realize it. Afraid to feel bad after.
For me, there are fantasies we can live, and few others we don't have to.

[r0mantique]

It is one of my fantaisies, but I don't know if i am able to realize it. Afraid to feel bad after.
For me, there are fantasies we can live, and few others we don't have to.

Of course, I precise that I meant it is one of my fantasies to be in a gang bang, not to be forced !