Any tips on self-spanking?

[BisMe]

Does anyone have any tips on how to best do self-spanking in a cyber relationship? I'm a D who's not sure what instructions to give, with an s who would like to do it more but isn't sure what to do. Any thoughts are appreciated!

[Nikita]

1. Assuming you have a list of punishable offenses handy, instruct sub to have a spatula, wooden spoon, ruler, or other such implement available to use when play begins.

2. When sub is told to spank, count it out on keyboard and encourage sub to hit harder, OR, make sub spank as many times as possible while you time them. (Usually 2 to 3 minutes is sufficient.) By this time they should be cruising into blonde space.

3. If your sub wants to spank himself more, maybe you should make them earn it.

[fantazmaster]

Bisme,
Sounds like you may have a situation where one of those Robotic Arms
could come in real handy,as you can control these remotely over the Net.
Plus ,you can program them to perform a variety of functions besides
your interest here!


http://www.totalrobots.com/program_files/robot_arm.htm

[submissivewife]

oh the hair brush works very well!!! I have reddened my ass very nicely with my internet Master.

Sometimes I beg for it. What he does is have me give myself a good swat, count and thank him after each stinging swat. He will give me instructions like harder or tell me to count louder or even go faster. After my ass is stinging sore my pussy gets the same treatment with the brush.

[FurryFury]

I was once assigned a task of spanking myself. This was not for punishment's sake. It was for learning and exploration. I was to work on the "stinging slap."

I thought it was pretty stupid at first. I ended up very pleased though. I enjoyed it a great deal. I learned how to better administer a spanking not just to myself but also to others.

I got more familiar with my ass. In the "end" I had to admit even to myself that I have a much smaller and more pleasing ass than I had allowed myself to believe.

Besides the hand, which I adore, I recommend the ping pong paddle, yard stick, flogger and long stemmed roses.

Fury

[BisMe]

Lots of great ideas -- thanks much folks! More are always appreciated.

[firesign]

Mine doesn't let the spank count unless I genuinely squeal.

[Tojo]

You can also bend over, & use a doubled length of rope, or a whip. Flick it over your shoulder, so the end makes contact with the target area. A most effective technique.
Can't say I've had her do it though, I'm a teaser/pleaser, not a punisher.
Tojo