Mind games

[Silke]

Hey y'all

One thing that I find to be incredibly arousing are mind games. You know, the ones where your fantasy just goes wild and you're torn between being nervous and turned on. It might be as simple as your Master asking you to lay out certain items (a friend of mine told me about an incident where her Dom asked her to get a fork and then kept her guessing for ages before putting it to use...), a casual mention of activities or punishments that might happen at some stage...oh, the possibilites are endless. *big grin*

Since I love this so much, I'd love to hear what makes a good mind fuck for you? When or how does it work and what makes it more of a laugh than a thrill? What was the best experience you've had with this?

[submissivewife]

Now, this is one part of BDSM that has always gotten me so damn hot. Sir, is especially good at this. Their a numerous activities Sir has mentioned he would do to me if he ever had the chance. I'm not going to go into specifics, but the mind fuck is one that really gets me going all the time. I will say his favorite is the motorcycle. I'm scared to death of them. He's always threatening to put me on his and take me for a ride......I'm kind of grateful he can't do that at all now.

[Evan_]

I have my pet trained to run to the lady's room and put her toy inside of her, you know, the one with the vibration and the remote control? All I do is say "go" and she's gone. One day I said "guess what?" and she says "what?" and I said "go!" A few days later, we're chatting and I say "guess what?" I wasn't going anywhere with it, but her reaction was instant full-on-attention and sexual arousal. Unintended, but I think it qualifies.

[Ozme52]

Now, this is one part of BDSM that has always gotten me so damn hot. Sir, is especially good at this. Their a numerous activities Sir has mentioned he would do to me if he ever had the chance. I'm not going to go into specifics, but the mind fuck is one that really gets me going all the time. I will say his favorite is the motorcycle. I'm scared to death of them. He's always threatening to put me on his and take me for a ride......I'm kind of grateful he can't do that at all now.

Well, tell him I can help him with that...

[submissivewife]

Well, tell him I can help him with that...

Geeze! What's a sub to do.......




Tojo,

I agree with Silke that was so cruel......

[Tojo]

And you thought I was such a nice boy too....



Tojo

[submissivewife]

And you thought I was such a nice boy too....



Tojo

yeah, I did. I guess I was wrong.......

[Silke]

Hey subwife - I'm with you on the motorcycle question *nods*...

And I think it qualifies indeed, Evan. *giggles* What a cool association - planning on using it conciously in the future?

[Ozme52]

I like to augment position training with creating a mindset. Not only must you contend with the physical confinement, you must be actively thinking of a particular future use of the position...

[Silke]

*grins* somehow I know exactly what you mean, Oz...

[Tojo]

I had one of my girls dress up in a rubber & restraints outfit one day, & had her get the spanking paddle out. I took my time getting everything just right, then had her pick the paddle up...

& told her to just hang it on her belt & carry it around while she did the housework.

Anticipation can be such fun.


Tojo

[Silke]

LMAO - that's cruel, Tojo! *giggles* I love it!

[sub_karla]

i have always said

the key to my body is my mind. Win that and the body will follow.

[jennjenn]

When you are sitting naked and need something out of the car and He tells you that you need to get it as you are .... you look at Him slightly panicked thinking there is no way He is going to make me go out into the street naked. He tells you to be quick about so you start to move cautiously towards the door and not until the door is open does He tell You to close the door and get dressed before going out.

[Ozme52]

I live on 50+ acres. The neighbors can see if they're using binoculars... and you know they sometimes do...

And I insist you go out to the car and fetch my belongings... Whether you can be seen or not is all in your mind....

[Silke]

Ooooh, jennjenn - what a beauty! I love it! Has he ever followed through with anything like that? To me, that would add to the mind fuck, lol. I have a way of thinking 'nah, he's just not REALLY going to do that...' and it kinda ruins a few of the good ones.

Oz - lol, I have my neighbours windows just opposite of mine, about 10 metres away. Well, I can see everything they do, so they should too, huh? *grins* Definitely a good one! And why is there no doubt at all in my mind that you actually DO send out your sub to the car...?

Thanks for sharing, both of you...I just love this thread.

[jennjenn]

He has had me do public tasks before so although i did not think He would make me, there was also that doubt in the back of my mind. Yes it does make a person really question what will and will not be reality.

[dzire2pleeze]

Speaking of having to go outside naked; well once I was ordered to go to the mailbox without a top. He was relentless and I knew I would have to do it. He was not going to back down, despite my pleading. So, I did as I was told - only at 3 a.m. Ha! I am brilliant, no? By the way, I am the only house on the block, so I was not too concerned anyway.

[Silke]

Speaking of having to go outside naked; well once I was ordered to go to the mailbox without a top. He was relentless and I knew I would have to do it. He was not going to back down, despite my pleading. So, I did as I was told - only at 3 a.m. Ha! I am brilliant, no?

LMAO!!! This could have been me also...

[Ozme52]

How about a walk in the moonlight...

There's nothing like seeing a full moon when the moon is full...

[chattel69]

Having to select three BDSM pictures I like, which are then set aside, not being told what will happen or when it will happen. The anticipation keeps the mind thinking about the pictures I selected even though I'm not allowed to look at them until Prof says I can.

[Misato36]

Mind games can be fun but scary at the same time. There was one particular time that I was so close to soiling myself because I was so afraid of what my master might do. We had just finished having sex and I was tied to the bedpost. It was a good day and I wasn't worried about him being in a bad mood. He suddenly sat up and called a couple of his friends to come over saying that he had sometime fun and erotic set up. He then turned to me and gave me a small smirk. He then changed and left the room leaving the door slightly ajar. He talked to his friends about getting some pussy leaving me to think that he was going to let them fuck me. He kept walking near the bedroom and I'll be honest - it scared the shit out of me. After playing around for an hour he came and untied me laughing at the look of uncertainty on my face and left. I wasn't forced to have sex with anyone that day.

[submissivewife]

Yeah, that would get me too.....

[Silke]

*gulps* With all that you told us about your Master already I'd have been scared as hell...

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. We had just finished having sex and I was tied to the bedpost. It was a good day and I wasn't worried about him being in a bad mood.

That sentance really worries me.

*gulps* With all that you told us about your Master already I'd have been scared as hell...

I would have to agree with Silke. I hope that your relationship is a safe one for you.

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A mental mind fuck can be nice.

Frank: The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975)

[dzire2pleeze]

Miasto - oh my. Scary, but my question is how did you feel afterwards? Thinking about what he did to you, arouses me beyond my wildest dreams. Of course, he can never use that one again, right?

[Misato36]

Miasto - oh my. Scary, but my question is how did you feel afterwards? Thinking about what he did to you, arouses me beyond my wildest dreams. Of course, he can never use that one again, right?

Afterwards I was relieved that nothing happened. It didn't turn me on because I was not comfortable with the notion of having sex with strangers and being completely helpless. Unforutnately later on in our relationship he wasn't joking about the mind game and actually went through with his threat.

[Timberwolf]

Here's an idea I've been thinking about using in a story. Or for that mater even doing if I had the chance.

Get one of those insertable toys with a remote. Have her wear it out to dinner. (This probably takes some kind of harness to keep it secure for the evening.)

We go out to dinner. Somewhere nice, or at least nice-ish lol. I buzz her every once in a while, for different amounts of time. If this toy had various intensity settings that would be much more fun. I make a point of having her cum in public at least once.

So we get in the car, and I give her a choice: I turn this thing onto a medium setting and leave it there until we get home, and I will give you a present when we get back. Or don't have it on and get no reward.

Naturally, she chooses to have it on.

So I turn it on, and leave it on, and we start driving. In a couple minutes, it occurs to her... we don't seem to be heading home. She inquires. That's when I say with a smirk:

"Oh, didn't I mention it? We're going out dancing."

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