Welcome to the BDSM Library.
  • Login:
beymenslotgir.com kalebet34.net escort bodrum bodrum escort
Results 1 to 4 of 4

Hybrid View

  1. #1
    Daddy's Baby Girl
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    FL
    Posts
    24
    Post Thanks / Like

    HELP: Sub Switching Roles With Her Dom

    My Dom and I are 24/7 mentally d/s, but occassionally he wants me to be the dom. I'm still figuring it out, but I'm all for suggestions. He seems to let me do anything I want to do which is really odd for me.

    It's not a common occurance but once or twice a month he let's me.

    I do my best to please him and make him please me, but how do you know all the limits besides asking him every time you do something "is this okay" WITHOUT ruining the moment?

    [grins] I do stuff to him that he doesn't always do to me. [grins] It's weird being the Dom to a guy. I guess that's society's influence on me.

    I'm all for suggestions!

  2. #2
    Registered User
    Join Date
    Oct 2006
    Location
    Not where I want to.
    Posts
    1
    Post Thanks / Like

    Hrm

    Perhaps the best place to look would be the Questions for a Master/Mistress sections... I'm not that experienced yet, but maybe you should get him to fill out one of those lists... So you know his limits beforehand.

    Hope I helped at least a little! :P

  3. #3
    Master's Disarray Grace
    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Location
    SW Ohio
    Posts
    1,152
    Post Thanks / Like
    Not sure why this was missed and not moved to where some doms might be able to help you out. But with this posting it will bump this up and I will now move this so some doms or dommes can be of help...good luck

    Talia
    Should you need anything, need to make a comment or suggestion please feel free to PM or email me at superopposite@gmail.com


    Claimed by firmandconfident

    Master's Words 7/2006

    I will not rest until you are
    Lady of this house
    Slut of the bedroom
    Whore of the basement dungeon

    1/14

    sleeping slut....
    sleeping slut being raped....
    slut enjoying her shame in front of her master
    Priceless
    for everything else there is MASTERcard

  4. #4
    Registered User
    Join Date
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Sunny Southern California
    Posts
    1,325
    Post Thanks / Like
    Congrats on exploring the part of you that is a domme!

    Communication before playtime, during and after, will help you get to know his likes and limits for when you are in the "top" role.

    Those lists of questions can be great for also keeping fantasy and reality in their place. What turns on us in a story might be a serious turn off in real life.

    Ask him lots of questions and file away information for the next playtime. Watch movies or read stories together. Discuss what you liked and what you didn't.

    I would also suggest, having a ritual at the beginning and ending of your domme sessions. This helps you both settle into the role and sets you up for success. It can be something as simple as having him kneel for you, or you asking him to do the same thing, every time. When playtime is done, you might have him stand and you kneel. Or have a phrase if you happen to be in bed.

    Have fun!

    Ruby

    Me? I'm at one with my duality. I switch, therefore I am.
    Vampire erotica stories are posted here http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/a...?authorid=1290
    Visit http://www.vampirespet.com/ActivityChecklist.html for a Submissive / Dominant / Switch Activity Checklist.


Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Members who have read this thread: 0

There are no members to list at the moment.

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Back to top