What to do in Public??

[laine]

My Sir and I are unsure of what to do when we are in a public place...?

Meaning.....What would be a good way to address him in public?

Is it good to say Yes or No Sir when in a public setting or not?

What about if I misbehave should he ignore it until later on or correct it right then and there??

Thank You Very Much

laine

[Talia]

What would be a good way to address him in public?

Since he is your Sir, it wouldn't be too strange to call him such in public. Now for Master...I call him love...he knows I mean Master. Sir would be acceptible in almost any setting I would imagine. Might be uncomfortable because you know what you are intending...others won't though.


Is it good to say Yes or No Sir when in a public setting or not?

Sure it would

What about if I misbehave should he ignore it until later on or correct it right then and there??

Well..this might be personal perference. My Master will handle things quietly in public, but will definitely take things in hand when alone.

[mina]

Who's with you in public? If friends and family are with you maybe I would hesitate from doing those things, but if it's just you and your Sir and a bunch of random strangers around you who you'll probably never see again... why not?

[TomOfSweden]

Personally I think sex is a private thing. And calling people Sir or slave is a part of the sexual game of BDSM. I know a lot of people like getting humiliated in public, but I do my best to spare people around me of my sexual desires, (the people I don't want to have sex with that is).

I'm not saying flaunting your subiness in public is wrong. It's probably very good, since making more people aware of it is good. But for me it has to do with what's polite. Call me boring or stuck up, but that's just how I feel. I let it all hang out at BDSM parties instead.

Getting punished by your Master in public needs some subtleties. I think that we can all agree that having your face slapped in public maybe isn't such a good idea. It can easily be missunderstood. If I saw a man slapping a woman in public, I would punch the guy out straight away.

What ever works for you mate.

[_ID_]

Calling him Sir is acceptable in nearly any setting. Except perhaps with family.

Punishment in public. One single swat to the ass when around strangers would not raise any eyebrows. However if he wants to hit home that your being bad, his arm around you, and his hand on the back of your neck. tug lightly no the short hairs on your neck. Make you whence some. Would be acceptable as well.

Enjoy

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[master 327-834-200]

This may seem like a throwaway comment but you should call him what he tells you to call him, whether it is in public or private. The key though is that the communication happens so you are not left confused.

Yet another responsibility for the hard working Master I am afraid.

[laine]

Thank You All Very Much for the Replies!!!!!!!!!

[dzire2pleeze]

Sir? In public? Oh come now. I am sorry, i totally disagree with what everyone else has stated. If you're respectful toward him in public... shouldn't that be sufficient enough? ~sighs heavily~

Reprimanding you in public is, to me, just wrong... (unless of course you've already agreed upon it). A subtle look should suffice.. if your misbehavior continues, a more blatant gesture... both should warn you that you have displeased and will be corrected once behind closed doors.

Just my opinion.

[MasterC]

well, respect is respect. I demand My slaves respect at all times. Yes, she has to call Me Sir(not Master,) in public(general public).This is not only polite, but respectful to My authority over her. And noone ever asks questions.

As far as public repremands, well, lets just say My slave is going to soon be wearing a sign, in public, that say "I've been bad", and when asked, must tell what she did, and get T/them to initial the sign. So yes, I believe in public repremand. Its very effective.

This is strictly MO, though.

Master C