Switchs please introduce yourselves here

[jgslave]

Hello! I'm really not sure If I'm a switch... But whatever... I'm interested in playing bondage games, and I'd be happy with winning or losing... That'd be switch right?

[darinna]

Hi, switch here, too.

I generally dom men and sub to women.

I've been in the lifestyle for a couple decades now, but am pretty new to the online scene.

Nice to meet everyone.

[damon]

Hello, I am a switch, I am Damon, 20 years old. I am pretty new to this thing. I have an online mistress, but only for the past 4 or 5 days but she hardly talks to me anymore, its really sad.

[Heritor]

Hello,

I've been a switch since my first interest in the BDSM experiance when I was quite young. This is because the primary attraction was the sensation of pain, something tangible and exciting that I lacked in my sensory life. Now I still crave and fantasise about punishment, humiliation and loss of control but I am naturally very Dominant and an avid sadist, so I find actual submission impossible.

The main problem is that I top from the bottom in an attempt to realise my masochistic dreams. While I am master I can control the scene, and suit it to my desires, regardless of her plans (this is not to say I don't care for my sub's enjoyment, it's just that I'm in control). I cannot truly replicate my sub's loss of control as she has no choice, wheras I am to strong willed to be helpless, usually.

It's not that I end the scene. I just become dis-satisfied with the level of imagination and cruelty in my mistress, and almost inevitably try to shape it. Pre-discussion has proved ineffective, and I have sometimes attempted to create vengance by punishing her extremely harshly beforehand...

I more interested in domination than submission anyway, but still... Perhaps I should desist? Perhaps I just haven't found a suitable girl yet? Perhaps...

Does anyone have any advice?

[NCB]

Hey

Always had an interest in the world of BDSM, but I've no experience what so ever, not sure which side I even fall into, so figured that perhaps here was a good place to start! Hoping to get to know some people and have some fun, and maybe experiment a little!

[LadyDucky]

Hello Everyone!

I'm Ducky ask Duckygurl. I have found that being a switch comes easy for me, it all depends on the person which I play with to what role I take.

So far I have had three online slaves all of which have found real life Mistresses and have moved on from me. I have played with two rl female subs and loved every second of tying them up and playing with them to my heart's content. However, I am seriously having to think maybe I am more Domme than switch for I feel like I am always wanting to test and push against the Dominates rule over me. B

Who knows, but until then I still consider myself a switch cause I do like to give control up every once in awhile

[IrishDoll]

My name is Rin, I'm a domme in training with some sub tendencies on the side. I'm still trying to figure things out, but I enjoy taking control of my switch boytoy and pushing him to his limits. I also enjoy being taken control of when I'm not in the mood or if I'm feeling submissive.

[UnholyAdvent]

I doubt I'm switch, I need to be in control of everything and if I can't be in control then I will fight until I have it. Rite now what I really want is to be sub for a sadist dom not afraid to push limits who is just as extreme as me or more so.
As far as what role you are that's all how you feel.. whether you need to be in control, please others, or what goes around comes around. The only way to tell for sure though I'd say is to try both roles.

[depravedChattel]

Hello hello, ladies and gentlemen. I am depravedChattel, a name I am still proud of for coming up with. I consider myself a switch, though to be perfectly honest I generally do prefer submitting. But I do get dominant urges too, so I figure there's no sense in labeling myself submissive and feeling restricted to that. I am an 18 year old male, mostly straight but willing to explore some of my more gay inclinations. I've never actually been in an official Master/slave relationship, and haven't explored BDSM too extensively outside of fantasies.

[Sub Ben]

Hello,

Despite what my name might say, I think I'm a switch, though I prefer being the sub. I guess I'll find out what I am while trying some things out here.
I'm a 21 year old male by the way without any real experience involving bdsm, but I'm willing to try most things.

Regards,
Sub Ben

[unforgiven]

hi i am a bi switch i prefer to be dominated by men and dominate woman i don't have any real life experience and i live in Sydney Australia
unforgiven

[davina_]

Hello all. My name's Davina and I call myself a switch because, honestly, I don't know what I am really. I know that since puberty, I have been just overly fascinated with girls and anything feminine. I don't really consider myself even bi-curious because even though gave it a try in college, I could never wrap my head around the guy thing. I just adore girls and everything about them. The majority of my fantasies have me being a slave to a girl. I imagine myself doing anything and everything she asks or demands of me with very few limits. I'm not really into the physical punishment as much as the feminization and humiliation thing. I can pretty much imagine a girl making me do anything.

So why the "Switch"? Because nature was kind to me and I still have a strong masculine side as well. I love to imagine just ravaging a girl beyond anything she can imagine. But I am limited in how much I can do to a girl. I can not stand to see a girl hurting so I guess I wouldn't be that good that way. But I sure can do my best to drive her crazy. I love the fantasy of tying her up and licking and kissing every inch of her body till she is screaming, then pounding her till she's insane.

I'm guessing I'm not all the UN-typical. Just another guy with a fetish for anything you can picture a girl doing to me. Just like a million other guys I'm sure.

[amygirl118]

Hi there I'm Amy and I'm a switch. I'm mostly Domme, but only with females. With men I'm a little bit subby but not nearly as submissive as I like my girls. I've been a lurker on the forms and the lifestyle for a few years, but I'm really interested in taking the next step.

[amygirl118]

Hi there I'm Amy and I'm a switch. I'm mostly Domme, but only with females. With men I'm a little bit subby but not nearly as submissive as I like my girls. I've been a lurker on the forms and the lifestyle for a few years, but I'm really interested in taking the next step.

[hellman]

hi i'm tommy / hellman and i new to the seen but themore i read the more i think i'm a Switch and if that makes people mad i just think about the bi men and lady people get mad at them but they sill have all fun so if they can do so can we

[hellman]

hi all i have been in the life for about a year and a half and most of that i was a good sub and a full time servant to my Sir but there was some thing missing mt Sir and His slave told me that i have a Dom side and i should look in to it. so i with some training from my Sir i started playing with some subs my Sir new and found out i like both sides of the coin so here i am a happy switch

[Persia]

Hello, on here I go by Persia.

I initially started training as a submissive and enjoyed it greatly.
It wasn't until years after that I dared to explore the other side of the whip.
Since then I've had quite a few experiences, so I'm far from a beginner -
but I wouldn't pretend to be a full-blown Dominatrix by any means either.

Whether I am Dominant or submissive depend wholly on who I'm with.
I've been spoilt with some pretty amazing Dominants though...
Anybody that fancies seeing me in a submissive mood has some big shoes to fill!
Of course, living together with my slave would play a part in that also,
and as a result of the combination I'll generally be a lot more D than s.

If anybody has a question for me, please feel free to ask.
I don't promise answers but you'll (almost) always get a reply.

[Ravenna88]

Hello, I'm Adrian.

I've always had these fantasies of both dominating and submitting to women since I've been little, but I haven't had many chances to act on them in real life because of where I lived before (pretty remote area). As far as my preferences, I'm not hugely into hardcore pain, I'm more of a mental submission and servitude sort of guy, but I'd be willing to give a try with the right person. I'm here partially to learn what the reality of those fantasies are from more experienced people, and partially to explore them.

[bane]

Hello everyone!

Name is bane and switching is the game. My mind has been active in the bdsm life style sence i was pre-teen. active on the online comunity when i turned 18 where i honed my RP skills. When i turned 21 i wandered out into the world and found a Bdsm club and been living life actively in the comunity. Mostly playing top roles due to my crowed of people i am around.

newb on rope. amature in sadistic ways. journeyman in the ways of the mind fuck.

Hope to be talking to everyone over the next couple of months

[Marlene38ee]

I'm not new, but have been away for a time. I am a 'default' Switch as in our household, someeone has to be in chargee whe Husband is unavailable and that's me.

[Yankeecowboy1]

Hello Adrian,
I just joined yesterday, I'm YankeeCowboy and I have been fascinated by the lifestyle
Ever since I stole some book from my fathers sock drawer

[samgin]

my self and my wife used to switch between Dom and sub roles often as we felt like

[Midnight Kitten]

Hello all i'm Midnight Kitten
I'm a 29 year old, female, pansexual, switch who mainly identify with my submissive side and i have been active in the life style now for nearly two years.
I have played with friends who are also in to bdsm as well as had a few different play partners.
Currently i am enjoying attending munches and play events while also making friends and enjoying other kinky peoples company.
While exploring my own kinks, interests, trying new things and learning and witnessing other peoples kinks.

[LovelyLiz]

I'm a 30 year old bi-sexual, I consider myself a switch because I want a male Dom but I also want a female sub or at least a co-sub that i'm senior over. Still exploring on this, i've been interested in BDSM since I was a teenager but have never ventured into r/l. I'm on here to learn and explore with others.

[yaswanth]

can u call me bro plz my number 9502434090