Fabulous Fellatio for the Fellas~~

[michelle~]

Would the Dominants please comment on what they absolutely LOVE about fellatio, the details of how they like it done and why?

And submissives, please tell me what you do that drives them up a wall. It is all in the details, so share!

We as submissives like to learn new tricks and I want my Master's eyes to roll around like slot machines the next time I try one of your suggestions. *s

*licking a melting popcicle and smiling ever so sweetly*

[lily27]

*grabs a pencil and notepaper*

[moptop]

Umm, well, it does depend on the fellah, I think. I do know that with a circumcised man, the bit just around the base of the glans, where the foreskin was removed, can be really really sensitive... I have found that finger and thumb forming a ring, well lubricated, just circling that, move them back and forth (that is, round and round), with your lips and tongue just sucking and flicking over the glans... can be extremely good. Works pretty well with non-circumcised men, too. Some men find it too much, bit like getting it too hard/directly on the clit for some women.

Not all the time, obviously - alternate with other things. Forming a vacuum to make a real sucking feeling can be good. I use my hand to guide & add extra stimulation all the time, or gently rubbing balls, unless of course I happen not to have any hands free at the time...

[OttifantSir]

OK, my biggest turn-on when getting a blowjob is something quite a few women will never manage to do: Deepthroat. For a good lesson in how I'd like it, watch Heather Brooke of IDeepThroat. Unless you don't want to pay for the advice, here goes:

Training first and foremost. I'd like it to go as smoothly as swallowing a glass of water. As I said, not all can do this.
When "your" mouth is at the root of my cock, it's nice to feel your tongue licking my balls. Again, something hard to accomplish as it adds to the regurgitation reflex.
A finger or maybe two up my ass massaging my prostate. Quite a few men don't want this.

Now, with the most difficult part taken care of:
Teeth. Not biting hard, but nibbling a bit. Slowly withdraw from the cock and let your teeth slowly draw along the shaft. Just open up slightly when you get to the rim of the head. Move your lower lip up so your lower teeth isn't at the base of the head, but tentatively scrape your teeth across the head. Don't do this too much though. It will get sore after a while.
Between the balls and the ass, there's a place (which, translated from Norwegian) is called "the fold". Medical term might be the perineum. Very sensitive area to a finger, a nail (lightly scratching it makes me wild) and licking, either with flat tongue or the tip of your tongue.
Using the tip of your tongue, lick around the base of the head, the most sensitive part of it, and also the line of flesh under the head.
What I haven't experienced yet, but makes me hard just thinking about it, is also from Heather Brooke: Let the first spray hit you on your face, in your hair, mouth, on your tits, wherever, then swallow/deepthroat that cock and let the rest go straight down.

Well, that's how I like to, or with some examples, would like to, get a blowjob. One thing above all that makes me love it even more is seeing my cum drip down the face of whoever I'm with. But that's a personal reference. Most of this is simply physiology though, knowledge gained by reading and testing.

I hope this has helped you ladies somewhat. Of course, any variation you might think of is fine. Even a bad blowjob is a good blowjob. Other places too might heighten the experience for the man. This is up to yourself and your courage off course.

Good luck.

[moptop]

Yes, it's the perenium.

Deep throat is really difficult. Sometimes, just sometimes, I manage to relax my throat enough to get past the gagging reflex. It is great when I do - my man's reaction is fantastic, and I really love the feel of getting the whole thing in there, right down so my nose is buried in his curlies. It depends a lot on whether I am free to choose my own angle and position - there are a lot of angles where it is just never going to work. And even when it's at the right angle, you just can't always manage to relax and do it. Well, I can't, anyway.

You have to learn you partner's prefernces - some men can't stand teeth at all. But try it - mostly, he'll like it! (whatever it is. Except hard biting. Don't do that unless you know he likes pain...)

[Echoes]

one thing I found by reading then practing and trying this once was while tickling the balls with your tongue, his cock in your mouth- while drawing back up flatten your tongue against his shaft and have it wrap around and flap it, like a soft slap as you draw off him or harden it to a tip and flicker it fast back and forth.
Deep throating used to make me almost orgasm instantly, feeling the head penetrate and stretch that tight portion at the back of my throat was indescribable so one can only imagine what it would feel like for him.
Also using your lips, tightening and softening them at the same time as if playing an instrument...and wetness, lots of slippery wetness to fluctuate and alternate pressure and movement.

[michelle~]

*wonders about practicing on my breakfast banana*.......

[Echoes]

*wonders about practicing on my breakfast banana*.......

can always get assorted sized dildos and work your way up, I started on a small one and progressed this way...it does work, but nothing feels better than a handful of hair and the sudden home slam...damn.

note: if you stop practicing, your gag reflex does come back full force

[lily27]

*wonders about practicing on my breakfast banana*.......

I think a cucumber or zucchini works better... unless he has a bend to his member.

*giggles*

[Moth]

moptop has it spot on for me......."the bit just around the base of the glans, where the foreskin was removed, can be really really sensitive... " my g/f made a wonderful discovery recently when she got a little carried away during the rapid build up to a massive , and long delayed orgasm (for her) , she was fondling/squeezing my balls/cock as i tortured her clit and nipples relentlessly untill she was unable to hold back any longer...... she seemd to lose control , and as she started to take on that shudder of the pelvis , the one that tells me she's almost there, and her eyes unfocussed and the "bad" words spilled out through clenched teeth..... she began clawing at my cock with her long, and pretty sharp nails, catching me right under the lip of my knob, many times as she drew her nails up my cock from the base, and over my knob repeatedly, as there was plenty of oil/lube knocking around the sharp nails slid easily over the tuaght skin of my engorged cock, the sensation it brought cought me quite by surprise and brought about a huge tidal wave of an orgasm ( for us both), i would say it was in my top 3 EVER.
Moptop, you are spot on , at least for me

how she would achieve this in fellatio i don't know, but i can hope.

[rora]

my man loved it when he was buried all the way in my mouth/throat...then i would pull back just a bit and hum. Louder..softer...louder. It drove him wild.

[moptop]

Ooooh! human vibrator, brilliant idea! must try that

[Guest 91108]

Yes. sorry i really can't remember any details.... I get to wrapped in the situation. if it's good. period. So, just yes will have to suffice.
Any performance is considered excellent at the time.

it would be easier to describe bad ones, those let you focus on the performance more for me .....
* for instance the grimacing like she's in pain cause she hates doing it. ( that one is gone. lol )
* to swallow or not and the drama some create around that.
* What i like to call ' passive sucking' just go ahead and forget it ok? geeze.

Glad i have mostly those that are so good i forget what happened. smiles.

[Guest 91108]

forgot to mention

my man loved it when he was buried all the way in my mouth/throat...then i would pull back just a bit and hum. Louder..softer...louder. It drove him wild.

I do tend to think some of the humming should be involved all the time. only one has shown interest in that.

[~hellish one~]

oooh! i love this topic!!! ~grins~

i agree with rora...the moaning...taking him in as much as possible and then the vibrations of your moans against his cock can drive him wild.

deep throating is definitely something that gets the guys going. it's not something i can always do because i have a pretty strong gag reflex. but then again a lot of guys enjoy seeing a woman gagging on their cock...eyes teared up from trying to take it all in. hmmm....

my favorite thing to do is to spend a lot of time teasing...i'll run my thumb up and down the underside of his cock while flicking my tongue repeatedly across the head...starting out soooo slow...slow licks across the tip then getting faster...followed by taking him just barely between my lips and swirling my tongue around the head in small circles.

i've never gotten any complaints from my teeth grazing either...just gotta make sure he's good and wet so your teeth slide up and down easier.

i may love to tease, but nothing beats having him grab my hair, when i've driven him completely nuts with all my teasing, and forcing his cock hard into my mouth. mmm...nice.

ahem..yeah...~squirming a lil bit~

[Havensov]

For me, i love it all.

But, what really gets me is eye contact... looking down, into her eyes as she takes as much of me as she can.... oh my... it just triples the sensations...

[Pet_Amanda]

I would have to say that for me, what turns my Master on is when I take him all in my mouth and slowly pull up. Also when I take my tongue ring and slowly circle the head of his cock. I love looking deep into his eyes when I do this. It drives him nuts. I also love to lick up and down his cock and circle his balls.

[TomOfSweden]

Be very very gentle and the back is sensitive, all the way down to the base. Get it nice and moist. Go slow. I think that would work for any cock.

[michelle~]

Thank you for the wonderful ideas, all are delicious, literally.

We humans are so very lucky in the infinite pleasures we can experience.

[Guest 91108]

For me, i love it all.

But, what really gets me is eye contact... looking down, into her eyes as she takes as much of me as she can.... oh my... it just triples the sensations...

Ditto. the eyes can add so much.

Followed by sounds..... just the right sound and Mmmnn i can become putty in the right hands. * coughs * not info for public consumption.

[Havensov]

Wolfscout, i must agree with you, moans or hums while she has you sucked in can be wild.

I would also say for me that appearance means allot to. Don't get me wrong, i love getting a blow job no matter what, but if she is wearing make up, hair done up, or in a certain way (For me, i love pig tails) it can make a great blow job into a cosmic one.