First test for your new sub

[Mr.J]

How do you test your new sub, have you a special ritual you go through with your new sub to let her know she is now under your control.

[Mr.J]

I have a few various on a main theme of inspecting a new slave, the new sub stands in front of me naked legs apart, while I walk around her inspecting her body probing , pinching, slapping, touching her making sure that she is good enough or worthy enough to be my slave.

This can be changed for the subs experience or likes, dislike, the sub can undress in front of you first, you could tear or cut the cloths of the sub first you can have your sub restrained or free during the inspection, this can be done inside or outside and you can blindfold the sub

[Eponine]

This sounded like a good thread.. wonder why no one took up on it... I would love to read responses from other Dom/mes.

[Rhabbi]

PErhaps because most Dom/mes do not have a test. I feel a sub out through a process similar to a courtship. We talk about various aspects of our life and limits in BDSM. If it is going to work, it has to come from her, and anything I do is superflous.

[rce]

PErhaps because most Dom/mes do not have a test. I feel a sub out through a process similar to a courtship. We talk about various aspects of our life and limits in BDSM. If it is going to work, it has to come from her, and anything I do is superflous.

It is about the same for me...

[Sir_Russell]

I put a new sub/slave through a series of small tests to figure out where they are in the life. A new lady that has desplayed some signs of submissiveness will find that during our first night of sex that I will take her wrists in one hand and press them high over her head pinning her to the bed. If she thrills to that then I am on my way.

Russell

[Binder]

I feel that just dealing with me is test enough, if she pleases me she passes.
Once the relationship is under way, there are enough "tests" along the way.
Just pay attention to how she reacts to situations, if she reacts to a certain situation that pleases you, be sure to let her know with a nice reward. If she reacts in a way that disappoints, let her know what disappointed, and punish accordingly if she's a repeat offender, if it's not a repeat offense use positive reenforcement. Just remember, subbies really really want to please, and sometimes just the knowledge you have been disappointed is punishment enough.
I guess I may have gotten off topic, my apologies.
As you may have guessed, I'm not really into ritual, although maye enjoys some symbolism, so I use that as a reward.
I'm rambling aren't I.
Must be the time change...

[ncmaster7]

A stripdown and close inspection is usually first, consisting of feeling, and squeezing all parts of the body. Fingers are inserted into all holes and then after that, I like to blindfold them and raise the excitement level even higher. Will she recieve pleasure or pain first? Well that depends

[Fastfwd]

I have very limited experience having had only a few subs and aiming to keep the current one forever.

For me the "test" was always more psychological than physical. I would simply bring in the subject of my taste for domination and then see if she would willingly submit. The irony about being a dominant is that it will only work as long as the submissive wants it to. So who has the real power in the end?

If after a first experience she is already willing to wear some kind of restraint and is willing to go further sexually than we already did without involving domination then I consider that she is a sub. When that did'nt work the relationship usually stayed without any bdsm and/or ended soon after.

[ceegee{Benz}]

As a slave...every single day is a test

[~hellish one~]

As a slave...every single day is a test

oh i couldn't have put it any better than that!

[Master Will Tupper]

The _very_ first thing, the thing that determines if she is sub material, is holding her wrists together over her head as I kiss her. If she kisses back, more ardently than any kiss you've shared before, you've struck gold.

[wingsofanangel]

Mmm that gave me tingles Will


however some of the other posts scare the shit outta me!

[annie]

Agrees with wings on the tingles... YUMM!

[His_little one]

Mmm, I feel the tingles as well..... Another thing my Dom did that caught me off guard -- wrapping his thumb/forefinger around the front of my throat as we were kissing - no squeezing, just enough pressure for me to feel it -- he definitley got a more passionate/excited response from me.

[Stone]

Easy..........On your knees slut

[annie]

Think the first test I remember best... and I didn't realize that was what it was at the time because I knew nothing about D/s and was WAY before I got married...

Being pushed hard against the wall, feeling the rough surface scratch my cheek, breasts and other parts as he leaned in and growled "so you like it rough do you?" The shock and shame at that entire thought and yet the excitement was unreal!

[annie]

I didn't even get the bite... but what I did get was... *sighs and goes off to dream*

[Myst]

*smacks annie's ass* hey?! FOCUS! You can't leave us hanging with a 1/2 a story!!! That's crap I say, crap!!!

Totally got to go with d on this one *sits impatiently waiting for the rest*

[annie]

lol... sorry ladies... not kissing (or other things in this case) and telling

What youth misses out on though due to fear...

[Myst]

...debates the things she can do to annie to force the story out...

*whispers* Have T make her tell, d....

[Myst]

Oh yeah, like that's gonna work? I can see it now..
Torq: annie, tell your story
annie: I don't wannnnnnnaaa
Torq: ok. fine.
annie: good
delia: well that went well.... pfffft

LMFAO... well damn.... Plan B then... which is... umm... fuck.... *sits and begins plotting Plan B*

[annie]

*grinz all sweet and such... enjoying the memories... *

[Myst]

*grinz all sweet and such... enjoying the memories... *

No fair teasing annie!! *pulls out cane* That's just not nice

[annie]

hmmmmmmmm what to share... if anything....

His name was Scott... and he was a car sales man... yep, that's it, end of story!

[Myst]

hmmmmmmmm what to share... if anything....

His name was Scott... and he was a car sales man... yep, that's it, end of story!

LMAO, Evil annie, truely evil *grins* I like it.

[annie]

Thank you!

[Myst]

...debates going to annie's and tying her up and teasing her until she babbles...

Lol, need help d? I'm not too far, I'll meet you there! hehe

[annie]

Like THAT will make me babble??? *rme at the silly ladies*

[Myst]

Like THAT will make me babble??? *rme at the silly ladies*

Lol, laying down a challenge are we annie? *grins*