my journey

[moptop]

Well, DD, welcome to the thread, the forum, the community - and I have no idea what make or model (or year) the car is, but it looks mean, fast and dirty, and I like that - in a car or in a man! Tessa, you are a lucky bunny, if this av is a good reflection of the man's style!

[jeanne]

Okay, here's my guess and I'll take the reward even if I'm wrong

65 Mustang fastback

[Sir_Russell]

First I hope that my discovering this thread a little late doesn't make my advice unwanted.

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Now for audience participation...please? I am here asking to learn from your experience and knowledge, from Dominants and submissives. Your perspectives on what happened, how it was handled initially and the way it played out afterwards. I guess I am hoping that anyone with experience in living out a D/s relationship (in whatever form that may be in...online or face-to-face...it's all real life) can relate to this and maybe even share what happened in his or her situation. And for Dominants and submissives who just are who they are on their own at the moment, I would appreciate hearing your take on it as well. What could have been done and said, on both our parts? And while I am a great fan of witty humor (please include all you can), I do hope it will be laced with the seriousness I seek. Not asking for any big drama, just some insight from those who know more than we do and are willing to share with us.
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I have a lot of experience in raising kids and trying to live the life. First, a Dom is not a cripple so needs to carry his share in domestic situations, even if your a stay at home, don't work sub/slave.

I would first say that yelling is the mistake you made, a Dom is never going to take orders from sub/slave happily. Learn to ask in a submissive nature. I train my sub/slave to ask nicely, using Master when appropriate.

A quick aside you should have names for each other that the vanilla world or kids won't realize are ways of saying Master or slave. She uses my name Russell I use little girl or my love, she knows that I am saying my beloved slave and I know she is showing respect.

A sub/slave that learns this trick of asking nicely, begging when she can, will find that she can get the help needed without stepping out of character.

As I said earlier I do housework so that we have more fun time together, but I have learned to find out which mmmmm tasks I can do without making her feel guilty.

Russell

PS be glad it wasn't me once the talk was over the punishment would have begun.

[Sir_Russell]

tessa I have caught up with your thread and I will offer you both a little more advice and a bit of the future.

First you must stop calling him or even thinking about him as "your husband" start thinking of him as my Master. The longer you put this off the harder the road will be. The first real step in this is to get your head right, husband is much less then Master in everyone mind. To that end kneel in front of him ever chance you get. When people are near by whisper "Master" in his ear. When you are out where there is only strangers around call him 'Master" out loud, you will be amazed at the smile and glow that will come over him.

Also if you follow my advice there will be a time that "Master" just comes out of your mouth at the wrong time. When that happens to me I cover her by saying "yeah, I wish" and laugh. I had a slave that slipped enough times that it became a running joke around our unkowning vanilla friends. I began calling her slave around them and she just laughed and would call me Master and then sit at my feet while giggling.

Get your mind right tessa and make him very proud of you.

Russell

[~hellish one~]

I'd like to see that (tessa says she would too) Bonus humps if you know the year, make, and model of the car.

ok...after consulting the Almighty Mustang God (aka hubby lmao)...he zoomed in on the pic...analyzed it and says it is a '66 Ford Mustang/Shelby GT 350..lol

i dunno if he's right or not but he swears he can see the "350" on the side there...i don't see shit...but oh well. LMAO!

soooo...where's my humps? ~laughs~

[tessa]

First I hope that my discovering this thread a little late doesn't make my advice unwanted.

Get your mind right tessa and make him very proud of you.

Russell

Sir Russell, your advice is neither late nor unwanted. It is spot on, especially that line right up there. ~points up~ Thank you.

[tessa]

ok...after consulting the Almighty Mustang God (aka hubby lmao)...he zoomed in on the pic...analyzed it and says it is a '66 Ford Mustang/Shelby GT 350..lol

i dunno if he's right or not but he swears he can see the "350" on the side there...i don't see shit...but oh well. LMAO!

soooo...where's my humps? ~laughs~

baby girl, you're married to the Almighty Mustang God, too!?! ~laughs~ Oh, mercy! If those two ever got together, we'd be left on the floor with nothing to do but wait on them to finish discussing all things Mustang. Hmm, wonder what we have to do to get their attention??

Since I am the one logged in, I'll pass along the information. (nymphette, don't peek if you still want to try and get your bonus humps!)

Your husband, Mustang God that he is, is correct! However, there is one element missing from his analysis, something special about this particular Shelby Mustang. An aspect that makes it rare in the Mustang world and something that makes it so appropriate to use here.

~giggles~ He gives good riddle, if I do say.

Sooo...here are a few of your bonus humps. ~bouncing them slightly in my hands~ Heyyyyyy, I think I just figured out what we could do to regain their attention!

And moptop, that av is perfect reflection of his style- powerful, sleek and a sheer thrill to ride...mmmmmmmm ~gets completely lost in fantasy for a moment~ in. ~composes self~ Ahem, ride in. Yes, that's it.

I do feel most fortunate. Undeserving, but damned lucky.

[~hellish one~]

baby girl, you're married to the Almighty Mustang God, too!?! ~laughs~ Oh, mercy! If those two ever got together, we'd be left on the floor with nothing to do but wait on them to finish discussing all things Mustang. Hmm, wonder what we have to do to get their attention??

oh god i can only imagine how bad it would be. we actually used to have a '67 Mustang Coupe that we were working on restoring until hubby TOTALLED it! yep...you heard that right...completely totalled...~sighs~ not pretty. wanna see a grown man cry? well, there ya go....lmao

Your husband, Mustang God that he is, is correct! However, there is one element missing from his analysis, something special about this particular Shelby Mustang. An aspect that makes it rare in the Mustang world and something that makes it so appropriate to use here.

good lord you nearly drove my hubby crazy with that lil tidbit right there. LMAO he demanded to see the picture again! talk about having a coronary...lol sheesh! he figured it out though!! the lil "H" tagged onto the 350 on the side...~winks~ very appropriate to use here!! i laughed so hard when he told me what the H stood for!!

[tessa]

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oh god i can only imagine how bad it would be.

And it would be even worse than that!!! They would talk for days and still not get it all said. ~sighs~

we actually used to have a '67 Mustang Coupe that we were working on restoring until hubby TOTALLED it! yep...you heard that right...completely totalled...~sighs~ not pretty. wanna see a grown man cry? well, there ya go....lmao

My husband just cringed reading that. Bless your husband's totalled Mustang heart! That is a bad day! If any one of my husband's "beauties" were to get a ding, he'd freak! He's nodding 'yes'.

good lord you nearly drove my hubby crazy with that lil tidbit right there. LMAO he demanded to see the picture again! talk about having a coronary...lol sheesh! he figured it out though!! the lil "H" tagged onto the 350 on the side...~winks~ very appropriate to use here!! i laughed so hard when he told me what the H stood for!!

DING DING DING!!!!!!!!! You win a free supply of humps for life! Your hubby is indeed a Mustang Deity. And yeah, I thought it pretty sly of mine to choose that particular car to have as his av. That's my Devil.

[Mishka]

*waves*

Hi DareDevil! Nice to meet you.

I know tessa would give you all the compliments, but I have to tell you that you're a very lucky Master.

[Echoes]

Welcome DD, finally glad to hear from you and happy to see you here on the forums.

~hugs~

[gagged_Louise]

And it would be even worse than that!!! They would talk for days and still not get it all said. ~sighs~

Heard this one in a remark about "boys' talk" at weddings, 40-years parties and the like, when the conversation between the guys turns to their military service days:
"the moment someone says "subaltern" or "camp duty" we gals can all go home..."

[tessa]

~hugs Mishkalicious~ You are a sweetheart!!

Echoes, I stole that hug. Hope that's okay!

Boys' talk just means I can go off and gossip with my girlfriends about hairstyles and clothes and all stuff girlie. Wanna come with us, Louise?? Pretty please?

[Psynymph]

I'd like to see that (tessa says she would too) Bonus humps if you know the year, make, and model of the car.

is it a mustang shelby? i have no idea about the year......

[tessa]

is it a mustang shelby? i have no idea about the year......

~hands you 5 bonus humps~

I think I might enjoy this more than anyone.

[gagged_Louise]

I had to laugh too when I found out what the "H" in your husband's car means. Hertz ("hurts", anyone?)...

Apparently people owning cheaper Mustangs used to rent those cars and shuck out the high-power engines as a cheap quick way of getting a better one at home - it's not a very flattering story for the Hertz local maintenance staff is it?

[tessa]

Louise! You figured it out too! I thought it was just too clever! Yes, Hertz (hurts ) car rental company had the whole rent-a-racer idea. Imagine, paying money for what you weren't getting from what you already had. Car pimps, that's what they were!

Want some bonus humps, Louise??

[gagged_Louise]

*leans close to Tessa, arm touching her elbow* Honey, of course I'd like a few homely humps.

[pixie_dust]

Welcome, DD!!! So glad to finally make your acquaintence!! Very sweet ride in your av, btw...although I'm sure not near as sweet as the lovely tessa. *weg*

Hope to see you visiting us again soon

[Psynymph]

yay i win!!!!

*bounces around happily* so can i use my extra humps on tessa? maybe like divide them up between the car and tessa? oh come, pleeeeeaaassseee!!!!

*smiles sweetly*

[suchaminx]

~smiles~

Hello and welcome DareDevil - good to have you with us tessa is one of the nicest people I have ever met, it is a joy to have her with us and I have enjoyed getting to know her. Looking forward to getting to know you too ~smiles and a hug~

tessa- jiggles - will never be able to hear that word without thinking about your 'story' now

~laughing and giggling~

minxy xx

[tessa]

tessa- jiggles - will never be able to hear that word without thinking about your 'story' now

~laughing and giggling~

minxy xx

I relayed your message and he said to say hello to you. One day soon, I hope I can get him to sit still long enough to come back in here again. He thinks your screen name is cute. I said it fits you to a tee. Speaking of which, ms. minxy, I think I heard a little wicked in that giggle about the jiggle. ~looks at you~ You can be such a surprise, did you know that?

pixie, he was much appreciative of your welcome and the kind things you said. Depends on the day as to whether he'd agree with you about me being sweeter than the car. He thinks your av is very nice, too. So do I, if I haven't said so before.

And nymphie. ~smiles~ He just chuckled when I told him what you posted. I got a bit hmpff-y when he said that sure, you could divvy up the humps. I was like, "I have to share with a car??" In true Mustang Diety fashion, he said, "that ~pointing to his av pic~ is anything but "a car".

The idea of a pretty girl on a car makes a man a little crazed, it seems. Ask baby girl. I bet she knows all about that too.

[suchaminx]

tessa

me wicked?.....................as if!!! *ponders being a surprise mmmmmmmmmmmm*

~giggling even more~

hugs minxy xx

[tessa]

me wicked?.....................as if!!! *ponders being a surprise mmmmmmmmmmmm*

~giggling even more~

~my hands on my hips, staring at minxy in the midst of her giggle fit~ If I had my Domme panties on, I'd absolutely spank you. But I don't have panties, much less Domme ones, so there is that. You are something else, little minxy!



Well, tomorrow we are meeting Red and her Dom. I'm so excited I can't wait! I'm excited because:

1) I get to see Red again. Woohoo! And I get to meet the man behind her new-found happiness. He counts in the excitement factor.

b) For the first time in 3 years, I'm going on a date with my husband...just him and me. The mom in me feels guilty, but seeing how I've made sure my child will be well taken care of in my absence, I think I'll get over it.

Z) Because this is something my husband is indulging me in, I have to do all sorts of "things" to show him how grateful I am for him allowing this. If you don't know what such "things" are, pm me and I'll send you pictures. Ok, I jest. You wouldn't necessarily have to send a pm.

12) My husband and I are going out with another couple who are all about their BDSM-ness. That just floats my boat all kinds of ways.

3) I get to eat a meal without someone saying, "Can I have that that?", "I didn't want Sprite", "It looked like a french fry, so I ate it", "I want to go home now" and "uh-oh".

Now it may seem as if this is all just fun and giggles for me. And it is.

But it's also a big deal. This is something I never thought would happen. It's something I almost kept from happening because I thought I knew better. But then I walked in here, met some really wonderful people who didn't mind helping me figure all this out and now this- my first BDSM date.

I can't believe I just got to say that. Umm, type it. Oh, you know.

[DareDevil]

Hello everyone. It was nice of you all to stop by and welcome me here.

Thanks to all who participated in the "guess the car" game. A lifetime supply of humps to those who got it right. (Psynymph, any humps divided up between the car and tessa will be strictly supervised and may be recorded on video for quality control purposes.)

I am looking forward to tomorrow too. Taking my wife out to dinner as my submissive for the first time will make us both happy. She'll be wearing something real sexy, so that makes me extra happy.

[moptop]

Oh, I just love this thread!! Tessa, DD, Red, and Red's man - hope you all had a great date, and hope you all continue to bloom in your life and search. Makes me all happy inside.

[tessa]

Thanks, moptop! You are always a bright spot for me!

We had a great time. Well, I did anyway and I am so hoping our new friends did as well. We laughed at silly things, we discussed interesting topics and we weathered one bad ass storm blowing away the world outside! I hope we can all get together again soon!

It is such a wonderful feeling to be with my husband, having the awareness of what we are with each other now. Truly incredible.

~sighs happily~

[suchaminx]

tessa

smiles and hugs and more smiles

your happiness is jumping off the screen and smacking me straight in the face - it is so wonderful ~hugs~

love

minxy xxx

[Stone]

sounds like a i story i lived hey wait it was just we didnt wait that long.She had much the same feelings as you while i was doing my princely things had my head up my ass while she was hinting around and never took it seriously.Then one day she just spilled the beans we have been living happily ever after since

[tessa]

sounds like a i story i lived hey wait it was just we didnt wait that long.She had much the same feelings as you while i was doing my princely things had my head up my ass while she was hinting around and never took it seriously.Then one day she just spilled the beans we have been living happily ever after since

~giggles at your "princely things" comment~

There is a happily ever after! I knew it!

I am so glad to know you and yours are living it.