Do you cheat?

[Dorkalicious]

I cheat when I can....

I think it's because if I can cheat, then something isn't quite right. That he doesn't have the power over me that I wish he had.


Of course I'm just "sneaky" like that, and kinda hope to get caught
(Perhaps that means that the punishments aren't right? Who knows...)


Until I can find that one that doesn't make me want to cheat, I guess I will continue doing so.


I have weird values I suppose. Or perhaps a skewed perspective on how a D/s relationship should be.

[Mishka]

It might have to due with this stage in your life. I don't know you well enough to know how conservative or reserved or not you are, but you're young. I don't mean that as an old lady trying to patronize you. (for the record 35 isn't old) 19 is starting out in independence, or more of it. It's a time to discover yourself. Too much power over you at this point might leave you outright rebelling and not just cheating on tasks. Too little and you can't respect him the way you think you should or would want to.

Just sleepy brain wanderings

[jiggy]

This is for the on-line subs, really. No, I don't mean are you unfaithful - although that's another one that could be asked! - I mean, do you cheat on the tasks you're given to do, outside of your Master's/Mistress's supervision? Because it's easy enough to do. How good are you?

I am personally extremely tempted to cheat right now. In fact, I'm posting this to put off the awful moment when I have to do my nightly tasks. This is, 10 minutes position practice, followed by masturbating to edge. Alternate nights, do vaginal muscle practice instead of masturbating.

I've been doing this for some time now... whenever he can't join me - which is rather a lot at the moment - that is the routine. And I'm bored to hell with it.

So - all I have to do is take the position long enough to take a piccy (always provide proof...); get a toy out and take another piccy (because I don't even want to play tonight); and write up something imaginative to add to my journal.

So easy to do!

I don't think I will, but... do you?

It sounds like u need a new Dom to show you the real purpose of domination. PM me your details and i will review your resume to see if you fit my criteria. Also a pic too.

[Dorkalicious]

It might have to due with this stage in your life. I don't know you well enough to know how conservative or reserved or not you are, but you're young. I don't mean that as an old lady trying to patronize you. (for the record 35 isn't old) 19 is starting out in independence, or more of it. It's a time to discover yourself. Too much power over you at this point might leave you outright rebelling and not just cheating on tasks. Too little and you can't respect him the way you think you should or would want to.

Just sleepy brain wanderings

I hope 35 isn't considered old! lol.


I think you are right. I have been taking on a major life switch lately, where I am becoming more and more independent. I still yearn for that one to take utter control over me, and just take me to the edge...but it sounds like I am looking for something that can only be found in a lemon story or a romance novel.

Ah well...

[cadence]

I hope that 35 isn't considered old!! I have enough of my mother telling me that after 40, it's all down hill from there.


And don't worry Dorkalicious, in due time you will find someone with whom you click with, while still being able to keep your independence.

[Dorkalicious]

I hope that 35 isn't considered old!! I have enough of my mother telling me that after 40, it's all down hill from there.


And don't worry Dorkalicious, in due time you will find someone with whom you click with, while still being able to keep your independence.

Thank you I hope that you are right.