a funny but embarresing story

[tha]

It has taken me a very long time to get the nerve to write this. My dom has given me a task: to write about a scene wich went a bit wrong.

My dom laid a bracelet before me and said if i were to put it on i would give him permission to take the lead. First he made me a bit scared when he said he said he was the only one to decide when to take the bracelet of. It took a few hours before i had the courage to put it on. Because i was so long about it he lost the courage to go on.

So after some time he made new plans. So he tied my hands together, while i was wearing the bracelet. He also tied my feet to the corners of the bed. He then started working me up with his tongue and hands. It went wrong when i came. I have huge problems with laying still when im comming. So i hit him in the head realy hard with the bracelet.

As a punnishment for this event i had to post it on this forum. This was a very hard task for me because im having a hard time being open about sexuallity.

Because have had such a hard time talking about sex i don´t know if it is normal to move about when comming?

[learningtopleez]

Because have had such a hard time talking about sex i don´t know if it is normal to move about when comming?

Well I sure hope it's normal tha!! I can't be still either! Of course I have never had a Dom tell me I couldn't move about...but then I've only had one r/l Dom! So, if I was told to be still....

Very proud of you for posting sug! It can be difficult to do! I'm sure he is very pleased with you!

Hugs and kisses
~ltp~

[warlock]

Well I sure hope it's normal tha!! I can't be still either! Of course I have never had a Dom tell me I couldn't move about...but then I've only had one r/l Dom! So, if I was told to be still....

Very proud of you for posting sug! It can be difficult to do! I'm sure he is very pleased with you!

Hugs and kisses
~ltp~

Only ever had 1 bdsm session that went wrong. I was making the girl drink from a dog-bowl (it was full of water). I did whip her to encourage her, and she did go on her hands and knees and drink, but told me afterwards that she felt uncomfortable about it. I felt bad, because, as ever, bdsm is about mutual pleasure. It didn't stop me looking out for the right sub girl though

Warlock

[Misanthrope]

Well, I'll say it takes guts to write about something like this, but it can feel liberating. Until about 6 months ago, I was never comfortable talking about sex (this might have to do with my inexperience,) but after meeting ST, and sharing some of my deep dark fantasies with her, and being accepted, it's gotten easier. So congratulations on dropping that inhibition.

And each person is different when it comes to having an orgasm, but I'd doubt you'd be able to find someone who didn't move around at least a little.

[sm1277]

I had a similar scene go wrong, I was told to sit very still while my partner used his paddle on me, it was great especially when he started fingering me at the same time, I got really close to cumming and began to wiggle, my partner missed with the paddle and hit the head board, this made us both laugh, and I started to slip off the bed, he went to catch me and we both fell off the bed on to the floor in a pile. embarrassing and totally ruined the mood :yuck: