What was the first submissive thing you did?

[slutbeth]

First submissive thing i had experienced was to strip naked and be told to masturbate in front of Him and His best friend...totally unexpected, but extremely horny, i was not allowed permission to cum until i was told to.

I guess the next thing i remember is being told to shave 'down there' and til this day i keep that as my routine.. and now i'd feel weird unshaved.

[jaro_99]

Oh that is wonderful! Really...I guess you felt some relief as well at him taking the news so well *grin* I wonder whether at some point you were regretting telling him at all!!!

Congrats - obviously you both share something very special.

[Nikita]

Hello Everyone, i am very new to this forum, infact this is my first post.

To answer the question, i guess the first submisive thing i did was not wear panties to work for the first time.

i was always conscious about it and had a difficult time keeping a straight face at work.

love,
deepti sinha

Deepti:

Did your DOM or DOMME ask you to not wear panties? If so, you must have thought about doing it anyway. It really isn't too submissive, is it?

Slaves have some degree of control over what they are asked to do, overtly or not. I guess you asked for this in some way, n'est pas? :goldcup:

I go without panties ALL the time. Once menopause hit, I got real bold and had all the hair on my pussy lasered. (They say menopause has a lot of benefits! :strip1: ) My husband freaks every time we go out. Usually I wear a dress. Now he finds it very hot. If he really wanted to make me submit, he'd force me to wear panties.

Let me know if you secretly desired to do this?

Nikita

[Enclosed Lady]

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

Lol, I do something close, I don't keep my mouth shut just to get a gag, then I moan very loud to get a bigger gag. What can I say...I'm a gag freak!
[]'s EL

[subbabe]

I'm fairly new to the idea of BDSM, but have received lots of spankings, and been tied up while submitting to various sexual acts. Interested in cautious experiment and now have a new Master to train me and show me the way.

subbabe

[Blue_Monday]

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

Oh, who *hasn't*?


The first sub thing I ever had to do was call my Master "Sir." As much as I was dying for a D/s relationship, that was really hard. I struggled with it a lot, and he gave me plenty of time to come to terms with it.

Unfortunately, the relationship didn't get much past that. I think part of the reason I struggled was because I didn't really feel secure with him--for good reason, as it turned out.

The first *fun* sub thing I did was to write erotica on demand! He would give me a few story parameters (2 guys, 1 girl, a ball gag, and 3 nipple clamps) and a deadline. It was *so* hard to concentrate, writing something sexy and knowing that it was an "assignment."

[solesta]

My first submissive thing that I can remember was when my Master came up to my home and He had me get the room ready for a ritual that he had planned to do to collar me in. I was in the pleasure slave position in the circle grounding and sucked his cock when he told me to. It was intense and my legs under my knees fell asleep and when the ritual was over the pain from the blood going back was intense. Then he had me drawl him a tub of water and light a candle and bath him. That ritual I will never forget it tied me to him in ways that will last forever.

[death penguin]

Arguably, the first submissive thing i did was a pair of rope cuffs to the bed...but everyone i know has a pair of cuffs these days...

The first time i really felt submissive was when my gf sat on my face, while I was wearing my first butt plug. I ate her out while she leaned back and massaged my naughty bits. The view...and the feeling...were incredible. We don't do much outright dom/sub stuff (yet), but we have our moments.

Meh- I havent used my toys in a while- gotta wait for her roommate to go out over the weekend...ah, college life

[SL232997601]

I tied myself up w/ hand cuffs on ankles and wrist and swiveled clumpsy around on a carpeted floor. I suddenly got an orgasm and the carpet went wet. I had no idea that day what had happend to me and was very afraid somthing went wrong. I might have been eight years old or even younger, attending the primary school. The handcuffs I used those days were these for kids to play sherrif or police officer. You could buy them in any toys shops and looked almost like the darby style cuffs we use today. I have no idea what motivated me to do so but I suspect some of the Tarzan movies and 'Devil at four o'clock' might have had some influence on me, in which prisoners where chained together and arrested. I also whipped myself with a rope. Sometimes I slept w/ handcuffs on during the nights. There was no suspicious about it as my parents had no idea what the background of it may be, since I was too young. Later I learned that I had indeed an orgasm and sperm ejaculated. I practiced this for several years before I really got to know what an orgasm is... as a teen then.

So this was - in one way or another - the first time. But I would not call it D/s lifestyle. Please mind that there were no information about SM available those days. And sexual life styles were not discussed, neither in public nor behind the curtains. Mind this was in the late 60, early 70. Many years later my parents told me a bit about sex and I somehow got to know what masochism is.

[SalesGirl]

When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?

Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?

There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...

My first experience took place after we had returned to my house after a movie that showed a girl tied by a man. One thing lead to another and my date tied my wrists behind my back with his belt. After he let me try(unsuccesssfully) to get free he started to put his hands over me(things he had done on several prior dates). The effect that it had on me with my hands tied was unbelievable with a massive sexual arousal like I had not had before. With my parents in the house,it was too much for either of us to "go all the way" but the next night I let him tie me again and it was the first of several wild and exciting times we had with each other. Since that time(ten years ago) I have been very eager to do it again with others.

[NightDaughter]

I desided to rejoin the lifestyle becuase the vanillas I dated just couldn't handle the fact that I was raped by my first parterner I ever had, or the things that he did to me. Most couldn't handle it and left within various lenths of time, so I said for get you, I'm going back to those that I know will understand and even accapt what I've gone though.

[sarahgetswet]

we were very much into wrestling about and one day having lost to my older sister, she started to tie me up, then did all sorts of stuff to me - i found it soo exciting. I used to brat at her to get her to 'deal' with me again - sometimes spanks, sometimes wrestles and sometimes tiue up or tickles. I usually lost but ocassionally the tie would be on the other leg.

[EnolaGay]

I had to give a blow job. Doesnt sound alot, but what goes into my mouth im OCD about. It was derlibratly not washed, and he didnt look twice at me, it was revolting humiliating, and made me vomit more than once (shows it was my first time) Also to make me feel like I had done and awful job and not made him feel good, he decided not to cum.

[Najasim]

I have always played around with light bondage and tried to make my boyfriends dominate me, but never had much luck with it until I met my Dom. The first thing he did was to undress me till I only had my underwear and high heals on, and then tied me up on to a wall standing there while he watched me. And played with me for a long time teasing me.. I had never been so turned on before and knew that this was something I really wanted more of.. I'm still learning and always wanting more

[perfectlittleslave]

The first submissive thing I did was bow to his feet and kiss them and lick them. Master wanted to see if I would humiliate myself for him. I did this in the middle of a carnival. He then pulled my hair and made me suck him right there. It was so exciting. I have been with Master ever since, Submissively obeying his every word, pleasurably.

[Act21]

First submissive thing I did. I was in 3rd grade and we used to play star wars. Guess who was princess Leah tied up to a flag pole with jump rope. I will admitt that latter on I made a pincess Leah slave outfit for "Holloween" It got worn quite a bit more often.

First dominate: Making my guy lie on his back with his arms over his head and not move while I teased him. Cold drink and warm mouth.

[lionking22a]

i had to put my wifes panties in my mouth ,she tied my hands and made me stand for an hour

[vanessaevans69]

It was when I went for the interview to be the housekeeper for my now Master. I was told to strip off. As my new Master inspected my body he told me that I would have to shave my pubes. This was the first time that I had been naked in front of a man other than my father and my Doctor and I had never even considered shaving. It was soooo embarrassing.
Now that I am a permanent sub I am so pleased that I submitted rather than running.

Vanessa

[Jenny123]

my first was becouse I potched my G/F fella. he asked if I was into Bondge I said yes not knowing what it was all about, I found my self tied naked to a cross, and listening to him say "I think a little pain I think now love" as he felt my clitoris, but I survived and became addicted,

[CrimsonWineGlass]

It was only about..2 years ago? Feels much longer, but I went over to my girl friends house, we were going to relax and watch a movie and halfway through the movie she just got up and went into her room. At this point we had only been dating for maybe 2 weeks max and I was still a very shy virgin. I am still quite shy, but not as bad. But she came back out, dressed in a full dominatrix outfit with a riding crop. She turned off the movie and told me to kneel. I asked why and suddenly -WHACK- as she smacked the riding crop over my back. It was enough incentive, she put a collar on me and a leash, took me into the bedroom, tied me down with leather srips, told me that she was mistress, and I was her prick, nothing else. She continued to verbally humilate me, whip me, and eventuall pissed on me. She noticed that I was getting hard, and it kinda took off from there.

[slave for any]

my first bdsm experience,was when i met a guy online and he asked me to meet him ,he was old he was 56 years old man and i was only 22 at that time,,the thing is i am straight more than being a bi,,but couldnt resist his orders when he asked to see me,,,he asked to be completely naked ,pulling me from my penis,forcing my to suck and when i was sucking his dick,he spanked the hell out of my ass till i was nearly screaming in tears,,then u can imagine what happened afterwards,,he fucked me one time and my ass was virgin and it was bleeding,i went to wash it up and he brought me this cream that`s some kind of a drug that makes dont feel any pain,,that was gentle of him till i understood why he did that,,,HE FUKED THE SHIT OUT OF ME afterwards,,,damn i was in tears,,but till now i cant resist getting back to him whenever he calls,sometimes he brings other MEN over to his house to fuck me and i simply cant say no

[Brosco]

My first submissive thing was selfbondage. Going thru puberty, wet dreams, and learning self-pleasure was amazing and the first reaction I had was to want to make arousal last longer. The selfbondage was not a bondage kink, but just a way to delay the inevitable climax. Over 40 years later, having been both sub and Dom, Orgasm control is still my favourite kink.

Brosco

[kamuishima]

I first got into an bdsm relationship when I was seventeen. My boyfriend ordered that I strip down naked and lie on the living room floor. I agreed and completed my task. He then proceeded to shave me of all of my hair. He then took a large dildo and inserted it into me dry. It was a shock since he had never physically touched me before. I cried in pain since I was virgin and it hurt a great deal. I begged him to take it out of me but he said no and tied me to the futon and left me there for three hours. At first I was angry and humiliated but after a while I became used to it.

[Dongthong2005]

HI I am dongthongs wife. I still look back on the days of when I was pushed and groped by my brother's friend. I grew up in the Dominican Republic and bythe age of 13-14 would deliberately hang around my brother's friends and antagonize them until they would put me in a head lock and spank me. It grew from there into groping and wedgies, and later in the water sucking them. I only wish I hadn't felt bad about it then. Now I understand, it is normal, but then I didn't understandwhy I was different.

[servent_o]

My first expierience wen i was 12 my Sister Tide me to a Chair and left me for a half a hour wen she cam back she told me she liket the quiet and she will tie me up again wen i make a lot of Noise. I liket it and found out my Submisif Side

[disturbed]

in the first time i knelt in front of my girl frind and made her slap me a few times. After a while she got the hang of it .. Now I dont even masturbate without her permission. I love her a lot

[submissivewife]

When I was in grade school there was this boy I liked...he liked me but he picked on each other all the time. One day, he and a friend were outside my house, he had handcuffs. He wanted his friend to hold me so he could put these handcuffs on me. Weird thing was I really wanted him to put me in handcuffs, but a sister of his friends saw what he wanted to do and interrupted the whole thing.

[Warbaby1943]

Not counting mostly vanilla type of tying to the bed by my wife years ago, the first submissive act for me was just very recently.

I was ordered to strip naked in front of a beautiful lady I had never before laid eyes on. Granted she was a paid Mistress but it was still me giving up all my rights to privacy. It was thrilling and proceeded from there to other activities. I get excited just remembering the lose of control and facing a beautiful stranger with noting on but a smile.

[VixeyandPhoenix]

Hey everyone, this is Vixey - just to clarify.

The first night I met Phoenix (a couple weeks before we started dating) he told me how to reorganize my bedroom furniture. I kind of liked it the way it was and asked him why I had to move it around. His answer was simply "Because I said so." The very next day, hungover as I was, I put everything exactly how he had told me to.
And then when we were actually together as a couple, he spanked me lightly in bed one night, and I was instantly drawn to the feeling. Over a short time we began exploring and realized just how much we enjoyed the elements of BDSM in our sex life. Then we also began exploring it as a lifestyle.
We have come such a long way since the first night and the first spanking, and yet it's simply still so thrilling, every time I feel that hard smack on my ass.... or anything he does to me for that matter....

[playme]

i lost my virginity to force of 2 guys so my mind was set to please rather than be pleased from the get go i guess you might say.