Mistress Ruby and Her Pet's Thread

[Misanthrope]

I was one of those lucky people to get a chance at meeting Miss Ruby, and she is as lovely in person as she is online.

I am very happy for the two of you! I could see how excited and happy she was to meet you, and that she was just dying to get back and play with you. I hope the two of you get many chances to be together in the future!

Best wishes for you both, M

[orchidsoul]

That's fantastic! I'm so happy for both of you, as I'm sure the meeting was just as special to Ruby.

Nathaniel, your description of anticipation, excitement, and delight was really beautifully written. I'm really glad for you to have finally met your Miss.

Of course, I do look forward to juicy details hee hee

[alura]

I'm so happy for you both! It is so wonderful that your meeting in real life was even better than the fantasy. That doesn't happen very often.

That's fantastic! I'm so happy for both of you, as I'm sure the meeting was just as special to Ruby.

Nathaniel, your description of anticipation, excitement, and delight was really beautifully written. I'm really glad for you to have finally met your Miss.

Of course, I do look forward to juicy details hee hee

[Caitlin]

Nathaniel

I'm so glad that you got not only to see, but also to interact with your Mistress. I've always thought Ruby as being nice and loving.

So Ruby, ... do we get to know how you meeting with your Nat went, or do we just wonder

[Ruby]

So Ruby, ... do we get to know how you meeting with your Nat went, or do we just wonder

Caitlin, I'm debating whether or not I want to kiss and tell. Or is it Miss and tell?

For now, let's just say that it was better than I could have imagined, more wonderful that I thought possible and playtime with Nat was worth every bit of sleep deprivation.

Nathaniel, my sweet angel, I know I'm the luckiest Miss to have you as my pet.

[Jeneric]

Ruby,

I'm absolutely enchanted by your posts. What a beautiful love story this is becomming. To have found someone so special to play with, the anticipation of actually meeting face to face, and then the excitement of being with eachother...it's almost too much for a heart to take.

I do hope you continue to your postings. I look forward every day to hearing about your adventures.

Sincerely,

~ jeneric

[RubysPet]

My Miss has given me permission to begin telling some of the details of our meeting.

She had flown in. not just to meet with me, but to meet with many of her online friend from a aite where she goes to chat. A friend of hers, a male Dom, picked her up from the airport and took her to her hotel. After she had checked in, he was kind enough to take her to dinner. He plane was a few minutes late which just added to my anticipation. The Dom is a mutual friend, who did me the great kindness of introducing me to Miss Ruby. He wanted some special time with her alone, as friends, which I could understand, but it did nothing to help my frame of mind! Finally, they returned to the hotel.

She told me how glad she was to see me, and we cuddled for a bit. Miss Ruby had just returned to her home in California from a grueling business trip and then jumped on a plane to Kentucky for this! She was very tired and said that tonight she was too tired to play, and that we could just cuddle. Delighted for even that much contact, I gently massaged her shoulders and neck. She began to relax and purr like a kitten. I very gently kissed her neck and ears and let my fingertips work the weariness from her back and shoulders.

It seemed the fingertips had a life of their own. They began to work their way around the front of Miss Rubys' torso. I was as surprised as she when I found them gently touching and carressing her delightful breasts. She softly moaned and smiled at me.

"That's an interesting place for a back rub," she teased.

I blushed, but continued on. Now I've told about all she will let me.

But I must tell you one more thing, during a pause, while she stroked my hair, I asked but one favor from her. I begged to be allowed to wear a pair of the wonderful opera gloves she sent me. She smiled and gave her permission.

[alura]

That's a beautiful story. How touching.

[Ruby]

A big thank you to those who written for all the encouragement in keeping this thread alive.

There are many types of relationships to have in this big world of BDSM. Nat and I have a relationship based on friendship, his desire for a sensual domme, and my desire for a submissive male pet. That we truly love each other has made our relationship work. While he's been down this road before, it's my first time having a sub and I couldn't have taken him on as my pet, if I didn't love him.

Yes, I knew Nat for quite some time and he had to prove to me and T that his desires were sincere before I was allowed to take him on.

It's not the same kind of romantic love I have for my husband, nor does it need to be. Often love isn't part of a D/S relationship, but for me it's a requirment for the intimacty, trust and the satisfaction that comes from knowing your partner is having their needs and desires met, while my own are being met as well.

Before the first real-life meeting can be hard on the nerves.

There is the hope and desire to discover if the person you've spoken with for months via telephone,
exchanged photos,
sent and received snail mail packages,
played on the webcam,
and shared very private desires and moments with as an "outercourse lover"
is truly the person you have come to know and cherish.

Pre-meeting, there is an utter terror that maybe this person won't be what you've expected,
that somehow you've been fooling yourself,
that you'll disappoint your partner or your partner will disappoint you,
that hard limits won't be recognized,
that you'll be completely incompatible
or any thing else you worry about.

It's hard to describe the pre-meeting angst,
the doubts that come into even the most self assured minds.

For me, upon meeting Nathaniel, it was a relief and joy to find my fears unfounded. That we could hang out as friends first, outercourse lovers and playmates second, because that's the type of relationship we had built. It is the relationship we both continue to want.

That Nathaniel and I set ourselves up for success long before our first meeting, was critical to our wonderful visit.

I know my sweet pet wants to kiss and tell, to share our adventures and the delightful torments I chose to truly make him mine. Yet T and I have forbidden him to do so. Just as Nat's true identity is to remain hidden, so our private pleasures will continue to be ours alone.

I will encourage Nat to continue writing our fantasy story.
To tell of delights he wishes would happen or perhaps things that did. Only the three of us will know for sure.

Anyone who reads our adventures in the New Lord Mobius's Dungeon knows that "virtual Ruby" is quite the slut. However, in real life, I practice serial monogamy with my husband, T. It's a hard limit that works for Nat, T and me.

IMO: It gets back to the whole, my kink may not be yours, but I respect your right to have whatever and varied kinks your heart desires. If it harms none in a consensual relationship, then do what makes you and your partner(s) happy.

--- Side Note ---

What is outercourse?

Outercourse is sexual activity that does not involve penetration .... click link below to find out more.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outercourse

[RubysPet]

A most Happy Birthday on this most auspicious of days to the most wonderful, most kind, most thoughtful of a Miss a pet could ever have!

xxxoooxxx Pet

[Ruby]

Thanks, Nat, you truly made my day.

Lots and lots of love, today and always, :iluvu:

Ruby
XXX OOO XXX OOO

[Katmandu]

Awww, reading about the intimacy you two share truly warms my cockles. (Although, I have NO idea what a 'cockle' is! ) LOL

Please, continue to allow us a glimpse into your love story, OK?!

[Ruby]

Okay. We will. Thanks for asking.

[alura]

You know, I always wondered that MYSELF. Lol

Awww, reading about the intimacy you two share truly warms my cockles. (Although, I have NO idea what a 'cockle' is! ) LOL

Please, continue to allow us a glimpse into your love story, OK?!

[Katmandu]

Cockle~ 1) any of various mollusks~ Hmmm, you mean like oysters?
2) any of series of plants growing like weeds~ hmmm, you mean like pot?

Either way, I think I like these 'cockles'!
But, why would you warm them???

PS, Sorry Ruby, for this slight sidetrack in your thread. I just thought it humorous.

[Sam'sJasmine]

Dear Ruby,
It is so nice to read such a detailed and thought provoking description of your decisions to include Nathaniel in your life. I always enjoy the fantasies of having a third person in the mix but was quite unsure how to cover the real life aspect of having a third person in the marriage bed. You and T have included Nathaniel in such a warm friendly way, yet you do have limits that were openly discussed between the three of you. I was quite delighted that you were open about the “fantasy Ruby” and real life Ruby.
Thank you for the clarification of how the limits were set and information on outercourse.
You as always have my respect and I think you are amazing, Jasmine

[Ruby]

Jasmine,

T, Nat and I thank you for your post. It meant a great deal to us.

All,

We wrestle with how much to tell, versus how much not to tell, every day. Just because we choose to keep our limits hard and probably more strict than other couples/partners doesn't mean that it's any more right or wrong. It's just right for us.

I've found that to keep a marriage relationship happy and healthy, it takes about 110% of effort from both parties. When you add someone else to the mix, it can either harm or help the relationship, but seldom does it have no affect at all.

My husband, T, wants, needs and deserves the majority of my attention whenever we are together. As a mother, daughter, friend and business owner, other relationships needs care and feeding as well. This means that playtime with Nat comes after all the other priorities in my life.

Notice, I didn't say my relationship with Nat was any less important than my other relationships, because it's not. It's just that our playtime doesn't get the top priority.

I like to be in very close contact with Nat every day whether it's a phone call, an e-mail, or a yahoo IM. We exchange pictures, jokes and stories. When we find a moment and I ask, "Do you want to play?" and I hear, "Yes, Miss.", then I know we are going to have a good time.

The more open I am with my men about my wants and desires, the more open they are with me about theirs. Honesty and mutual respect are critical to the success of this adventure.

By respecting each person's limits and keeping an open line of communication, the jealousy factor that creeps into any relationship, is kept to a minimum and often stamped out before it can attempt to drive a wedge between any of us.

All the best,

Ruby

[learningtopleez]

Dearest Ruby....you continue to amaze me with your words of wisdom, your outpouring of love for all those in your life, and your kindness!

It was truly a wonderful thing to read about....you getting to meet your Nat and he you...I know it must have been thrilling for you both and am glad you both, along with T, have allowed us a little peek into your lives!

Thank you for continuing to be one of the brightest and most loving people I know!

hugs and kisses
~ltp~

[Ruby]

Thanks LTP,

You make me blush with your kind words.
Thank you for being such an active and delightful poster on the forums, I learn a great deal from you.

All,

When Nat and I started this thread, we had no idea how much fun we would have giving everyone that peek in to our lives and fantasies.

We'll get back to work on those fantasies ASAP. :-)

I truly enjoy Nat's writing and he is a wonderful muse for my own.

Ruby

[Ruby]

When we last left Nat, in our fantasy play, he was looking in a mirror and I was standing behind him.

"What shall we do next, pet?" I ask, my hands tracing his shoulders.

"Are you ready to eat, Miss? I've prepared dinner," he responds.

"The thought of the lovely you,
dressed for serving,
taking your time about feeding your miss,
yummy.

I imagine, tying you to a chair with silk cords,
securing your ponytail to the back of the chair so you can't put your head too far down,
then inviting in a few ladies to help feed you and keep you ready for me.

Mmmmmm......

They would coo over you,
such a good boy,
perhaps one would have her own pet shackled and nearby,
watching shyly, yet hungrily,
wanting to be in your spot,
but not yet allowed the pleasure.

We'd sit around the table,
enjoying the dessert you've made, with coffee and tea.
The other pet would be serving, something you desire to do,
but you are busy being hand fed and fussed over.

Your ribbon bounces between your legs,
your nipples are hard like pebbles,
so tempting to taste,
that I don't bother to hold back,
yet instead lean my head down to suckle you.

One of the ladies whispers naughty things in your ear,
telling you what she wants to do to you,
while the other feeds you another bite of dinner.

Your hands grip the chair,
your hips are bucking,
pleasing me with your excitement,
knowing I like you to wiggle I trace your hard cock with my fingertips.
Your chest is thrust forward.
What a delightful site you make.

Mmmmmm......"

"May I dress you for dinner, Miss?"

"Yes, Pet. That would be very nice. Let's move to the bedroom and you may select something from the closet."

(C) 2005 Ruby Bloodstone All Rights Reserved

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We'll continue our story here:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3882

If you'd like to join us, please send me a PM.

[Masters_lilone]

WELCOME TO THE FAMILY Nathaniel.

[Ruby]

It's been awhile since I've written about Nat and my playtime, but each session brings me joy and happiness.

We've grown as pet and miss, and Nat has made huge steps in understanding how I want him to communicate with me.

Recently, in the middle of a scene, I gave Nat a choice of two things I wanted to do, and asked him to pick one.
Now I knew that one of those choices I would enjoy much more than he.

Such a question in the past would have set his mind spinning, trying to figure out if I wanted him to "suffer" or not. This time, my sweet angel didn't hesitate. He chose the one he wanted to do knowing
a. he could
b. it wasn't a test
and
c. I wouldn't have asked him to choose if I wanted one thing over another.

By making a decision and letting me know what he wanted, he has overcome a huge hurdle.

In the past, such a question would have produced a response that I was his Miss and it was my right to choose, whatever I wanted... and other rehearsed mumblings.

While some dom/mes prefer this type of answer, not me. If I ask a question where a choice is involved, I'm not playing a mind game. I want to hear my pet's choice.

For example, if I say, "Do you want to wear the blue or red shirt?", the answer had better be what my pet wants, because that's what he'll be wearing. Otherwise, I would have just chosen the shirt and told my pet to put it on.

A big congratulations to my wonderful pet, Nathaniel!

[Aesop]

I second that congratulations, Ruby.

[learningtopleez]

It's great to hear that you and Nat have evolved in your relationship Ruby! I know he must think he is in heaven to have you as his Mistress! And I know you feel the same about him! It's always wonderful to read about the two of you!