Saying the "L" word...

[naughtylittleme]

I have always said it first. Only one time it wasn't returned immediately and we were both young and he did eventually say it just not right then. With my husband I said it only two weeks after we really started being with each other. We had known each other a month prior to being together intimately. When our relationship turned intimate we never spent a night apart again until after we were married. I just knew with him. I knew he loved me too. I knew we would marry I just knew. We met in November, I told him I loved him in December he said it back lol. We were engaged in March, and married in July. Sunday we celebrated 8 years together. Sometimes you do just know.

Don't fret over saying it, it isn't worth it. Do what comes natural to you chances are he feels the very same way you do.

[Midnite]

My sub and I have not reached that point in our relationship yet, if we ever do, which I hope, I would have no problem telling her that I love her first, she is my most precious possession, and I would have no problem letting her know that I love her.

[Echoes]

I have a funny vanilla love story that so shows how stubborn males can be and it makes no difference if they are Dom or not.
My late husband and I had been dating for over 2 years when this incident occured.
I had professed my love to him often, beginning about 4 months after we met. The typical response was usually "and I like you very much". Grrrr!!! Finally one night I had had it. I had said "I love you" and he said the usual. I went into a wild rage about how I had wasted over 2 years of my life for this and blah, blah, blah. Well, you don't need all of the ugly details. I ended it by pointing to the door and screeching at the top of my lungs "And if you can't love me by now you never will so GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!!" He looked at me with total fear (lol) and whispered "I love you". Tres' romantic, eh? The best part is that he never stopped saying it after that, and I knew he meant it with all of his heart. I am truly blessed because as they wheeled him to ICU just before he passed, I said "I love you Baby" and he responded "I love you Sweetie". Those were our last words to each other. It doesn't get better than that! "peace" ~blizz~

This is sad, funny and so sweet blizz. Thank you for sharing!

I haven't used the L word yet. Maybe one day

[Midnite]

This is sad, funny and so sweet blizz. Thank you for sharing!

I haven't used the L word yet. Maybe one day

I almost feel sorry for you, but I am sure that you have had your reasons, I do hope that one day you will be able to tell someone that you love them, and have them tell you, I love you too.

[Echoes]

I almost feel sorry for you, but I am sure that you have had your reasons, I do hope that one day you will be able to tell someone that you love them, and have them tell you, I love you too.

OH Goodness~! Don't feel sorry for me, this has been my choice. My heart is the one thing I have that I can offer and give...and when I meet the right one....perhaps I am just an old romantic fool.