Help please - need some tips

[Avralivia]

This is my first thread yay!

Well the thing is, I need to take control of my sub properly tommorow, and i want to keep control not have long breaks like last time, i also need to have reasons to punish him .... so i need tasks to set for him, thanks to q for helping me out earlier!! btw

So ideas on demeaning tasks????

[Qmoq]

Hi Avra,

There's a great thread in the forum somewhere called "humiliation", but the story library is a great place to look too.

Good luck!

Q xx

[Tojo]

I like your sig Avra, it's a beauty.

As Q says, there's a million of them on the forum & in the library stories- maybe a search for 'tasks' might do the trick.

I think consistency is essential for control- such as setting tasks to be done every day.

So much the better IMO if the tasks are something which helps the sub in some way, for instance I have lisa look in the mirror each morning & make sure she's 'neat & pretty'. She has to make sure her hair, nails & general grooming are spot on.

Wearing a collar at certain times is an obvious one. Asking a male to wear feminine articles may be demeaning- or not...

Cleaning house can be good.


Tojo

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orgasam control, demeaning, and frustrating for either sex. They must masterbate a certian number of times per day (enough to make it hard to just casually find time to do this). Like 6 or better, with each session being longer than 2 minutes, and no closer than 30 minutes apart. Continuing till they feel the impending climax approaching. Then calling you and asking for permission to climax, of course you refuse.

Or if they are going to be in your presence, carying something between their knees while performing routine tasks such as taking out the trash or doing dishes. The item of choice should be something they don't feel comfortable handleing, for a guy a tampon would be good, for a girl maybe a condom. Of course that would depend greatly on what object they feel intimidated by.

V/R
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ps Welcome to the forms.

[Avralivia]

ooo thanks guys - ur great

[Warbaby1943]

Forced feminization could prove to be interesting and time consuming.

[AndrewMantis]

Would like to thank everyone who gave Avralivia Her ideas. We definately had fun.

[Ozme52]

Have him spend ample time in positions that you will find useful when you want him to service you. It will help put him in the right frame of mind and he will become more useful to you.

Make him avoid certain postures throughout the day that you feel lessen his submissiveness or keep postures that increase it. For example, for a female sub, keeping legs apart and uncrossed. I imagine you can think of appropriate equivalents for a male sub. Each failure to remember garners punishment or discipline.

These two things work nicely because it lets you exert your control both in person and remotely.